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56 M Brighton, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:47am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Back here after yet another dalliance. I will say that the majority have not been one night stands. Not that, that is a bad thing but; I really would like to meet a gal who digs being part of a couple with me. I really have little interest in taking turns.

I may not be muscularly chiseled but is that really what you salivate over? Burly me.

I am looking for a brainy, cute, artsy, pop culture, music adoring, trust-worthy, loving woman who isn't the creature from the black lagoon... I prefer long term relationships and always go into any with an open mind and desire to find ourselves a balance that makes us both smile...
What I’m doing with my life
trying to meet the gal to share it.

working, catching a band, taking showers daily, brushing my teeth, photography, watching tv, reading, eating, sleeping, laughing...

browsing book and record stores, eating and drinking stuff I like.

philanthropy, becoming immortal for creative works...
I’m really good at
palaver, snogging, thinking outside the box, being rather blunt, cleaning up after my pets, photography, cinematography, writing, being a compassionate, good, honorable human and keeping promises... generously making the lives of my friends significantly better.
The first things people usually notice about me
if we speak you will probably like my voice and ease of conversation...

i can be blunt and say what is on my mind. i can also be incredibly diplomatic, quixotic and eloquently erudite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
non fiction: biographies, Primo Levi, Elie Wiesel, gonzo journalism (Hunter S. Thompson), Legs McNeil...
fiction: Sir Walter Scott, Charles Dickens, Dalton Trumbo, John Steinbeck, Edgar Allen Poe... cooking from quilt country, the garlic lovers cookbook, river road recipes...photographers cult flicks and trash pics, nothing to envy, extreme Islam, Leviticus, etc...

Movies: Hollywood s golden age of cinematography, epics to documentaries; Akira Kurosawa, Ingmar Bergman, Ray Harryhausen, Cecil B DeMille, ManRay, George Pal, Irwin Allen, Federico Fellini, John Waters, Alfonso Corona Blake, Chano Urueta
janus films, the critterion collection, b&w, georges mellies...
no country for old men, the godfather, james bond, science, nature and travel documentaries, impractical jokers, jackass, bbc news, Aljazeera news... cnn without commercials, turner classic movies often and old black and white western tv series. batman from the late 60s, twilight zone and the Addams family...

Music: 70s Punk, Post Punk, New Wave, Delta Blues, Swing, Chamber and Early Music, Industrial, Celtic, Goth, 60s Surf and proto-punk, Reggae, Alt Country, bluegrass, Folk, American Primitive, Shoe Gaze, Early Rock, French pop, exotica...
little richard, the sex pistols, pil, the cramps, cat power, tallis scholars, johnny cash, gene krupa, louis armstrong, the ramones...
The six things I could never do without
a place called home, collaboration, my gorgeous pets, reliable transportation and accomplishments for they make me and us who we are.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to get one of you to be willing to participate in acquaintance.

shouldn't be so ridiculously hard to get a simple courteous reply to a gentle note of the open hand of friendship and acquaintance on these sites... let alone a verbal conversation

raised reform Jew, spiritually, i am more pantheist (nature, science the heavens and our mother earth) to some level aetheist with a clarity towards science vs fairy tale nonsense... organized religion is big business, often misinterpreted, and the idea of mine is better than yours is for the vapid. you do not have to defend your god, everybody shares the higgs boson, god dude, critter, alien from outer space doesn't need anyone to mock, maim or kill for it nor belittle others for a different opinion... most 10 commandments are solid rules for simple basic fair play. I often take the lords name in vain... my bad. by the way who gave the lord its name anyway? maybe that is why it doesn't respond when called... p.s. looks like the Catholics finally got it right with the new pope now the former hitler youth one has left the building.

creative ways to push boundaries of photography and film...

I have dated some really terrific and gorgeous women... my ex wife for instance... "zygodact" she is a sweetie and a cutey! I hope she makes a real decent genuine true friend or two here... hell; she even still likes me years after our divorce and the feeling is absolutely mutual.
On a typical Friday night I am
watching tv, reading, hanging out with friends, doing a photo shoot, driving somewhere with great music on the player..

wandering the city or at a nightclub taking interesting pictures or video...

catching a kick ass band playing their hearts out to too small an audience for peanut$.

out for a fantastic dinner and wishing i had a companion... I sometimes do as i suspect you do too.

friday nights are rarely typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have the balls to say what is on my mind.

There are very few cool hipster chicks on this site, I would really like to actually meet one. Of course, THEY think they are cool and hip, but, look at a myriad of profiles and compare to reality. The two perceptions are entirely disparate!

i am not slender...though trying to become slenderer.
a deal breaker to the vain shoppers here? How many children do you come with? pets? job and a "passport ready to go"? no job? you would like your future feller to accept that luggage, right? Ok; I CAN accept that; but you can't accept me with a few extra pounds? honestly?!?

I should be making my living through my creative works...

i like just about all animals except human low life, rats, mice, mosquitoes, fleas, bott and tse tse flies, sand flies, black flies, killer hornets, bullet and fire ants...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
i browsed you and you browsed back; accepted that i might be shy to have written first... i think i am kinda done with writing to people who cant be bothered to reply out of simple courtesy. so; please write first if you like anything you see here...

you aren't a catfish. I am really sick of reeling those in and having to toss them back into the sea of vapid time wasters.

you teach or graduated with an A+ in the "Brazilian butt lift system" sexy you! kidding lol

you are smart or a smart ass and seek similar...

you like cuddly older or younger men (actually, just me)

you are not intimidated by my saintly ex wife who became the platonic best friend and sister I never had. why on earth that might be a threat to you neither of us can figure out. She is on here too so if you are curious go ahead and browse her profile at zygodact

you hope to fall deeply in love with me as the feller you waited your whole life to hold you closest, are willing to do the work it takes to get to that comfortable place.

you realize that most relationships last for different durations some life long, some a day, a week, a month, several years...
would you be willing to take us to a first date? after that we can both have a good idea regarding next steps.

you are psyched to open the door to meet your new best friend...

you're horny? I dunno... You just wanna? you wanna hold a conversation with someone intelligent?