Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The reality is that I'm very unique in a good way. Even my life
long friends tell me that I'm one of a kind. You'll see that it's
I have a very deep admiration, respect and love for women. I know
that it's rooted in the fact that I lost my Mother to Cancer at a
young age, 11 years old...... No,I'm not looking for a Mother
figure if that's what just ran through your mind......... My
character traits came from my Aunts. They always said;" treat the
women in your life as you would have treated your Mom or a sister".
Not only great advice but the best advice.
I have never married but, not only have I had lengthy deep
relationships in love, I was involved in one that was a family unit
that allowed me to feel like a Dad and perform all the Dad
responsibilities. The baby I hold in my profile shot is the child
of my pseudo Daughter, he is now 3 and has the most precious happy
younger brother that's 8mnths. Even though her Mom and I aren't
involved in a couple relationship we remain very close, travel to
Austin to visit the Gran Kids, she often tells people that we are
like brother and sister. Also some of the past women have met one
another and enjoy each others company.
What's the point of me telling you this? It's who I am, and let me
be clear about something that may steered you away, NO we do not
bed each other, never ever. We simply still love one another and
The greatest tribute to the one Aunt, my Godmother, was when I laid
her to rest a couple of years ago. Women that I dated came to the
wake but five special ones came to the wake , funeral, and
bereavement dinner and they sat together and exchanged stories
about the dedication I had for Auntie and my family and stories
about the relationships that these women forged with me as was told
to me by my long time male best friend. Not only was that a
tremendous complement, but it shows that you reap the seeds that
you sow. As you can see I seem on the serious side but have a quick
wit and enjoy using puns and love humorous banter. I'm a good
friend, I'm one that stands up for the defenseless, I have a
tendency to "help the birds with the broken wings". I'm thankful
and grateful for all that I am.
When male friends ask me how do you do it? I simply tell them I
never let the little head Dictate to the big head what to do.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been a licensed and registered home improvement contractor for
many years that had a one time MS attack that opened my eyes wide
to who I am and what's really important in this journey we call
I also involve myself, on a volunteer basis , doing liaison/
advocate work for a senior population in a community setting.
Looking for a woman that will, pull the rope in the same direction,
some one that will love me as I do her and except each others
differences..you know what I'm saying…unconditional LOVE..we all
want it and strive to find it.
Enjoying the flattering comments on the way I landscape my yard by
people that pass by and stop to express their appreciation for my
hard work and artistic design.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have been blessed with an artistic talent that I incorporate into
many things such as woodworking, tile setting, gardening, cooking,
drawing, writing, and more.
Being extremely punctual.
Making strawberries dipped in 70% cacao chocolate and injected with
Grand Marnier or Cointreau.
Caring and sharing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Ponytail and people tell me I'm good looking.. ..looks aren't that
important, it's looking inside that matters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As far as books go, I never enjoyed reading them. Found myself
distracted and bored. My friends say I should write a book.
Movies are great but don't care for blood, gore, violence and
movies that derogate women. Love comedic movies. Enjoy theatre.
Live, comedy, and Jazz really gets me happy.
Much too much music to list, was never crazy about country but will
tolerate it. To me Rap is crap. Enjoy French cuisine the best, then
Italian, and most others. Real hot & spicy doesn't do it for
me, enjoy the taste but causes trouble with the "plumbing" .
Besides it masks the flavor of quality goods.
Pretty good cook myself and friends always look forward to what I
bring to Pot Luck dinners. Can put together a fine dinner full of
flavor, candle light, wine and romance. I'll let you imagine what's
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
The scent of a woman's Nape (back of the neck)
My Chuck Taylor sneakers in the summer time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why sports figures get payed so much and end up showing our
children poor sportsmanship and teachers get payed so little and
have the responsibility of educating for the future and often have
to buy supplies from their meager salaries. Why we can't set
campaign finance reform that takes BIG money out of the equation
and puts all candidates on an even playing field. How to get our
elected leaders to
do just that...lead and not follow the buck. I could go on and on
but I'm getting a headache. Oh! and how did I do poorly in school
and so good at Jeopardy?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not up a friends lake house for the week-end I may be
hanging out at another friends pool in the summer time. Planning
some thing for weekend and when just hanging home, I'm preparing a
great meal to enjoy while watching , all PBS and expanding my
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well it's like this........and then....... but until now......AHhh,
you don't want to hear about it anyways. lol ;-)
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