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62 Denville, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:45am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
first , i always put the seat down and i like to cook...isn't that
enough? i feel much younger than my chronological age, in
body and spirit. i enjoy playing many, ping-pong,
volleyball, softball. outdoor activities: biking, hiking, gardening, sculpting my
living space, tree hugging, swimming.
good hand/eye coordination gives
one confidence in other facets of life... my sons are a testament to that (in my unbiased opinion :-). both have amazing athletic
skills, and are confident, well adjusted young men. i never had to be that "frustrated athlete" father, who tried to live it through his kids-- i've seen too much of that.
i come from a talented, eclectic, artistic, and musical family.
i try to view situations, people, the world as 'objectively' as possible, while being aware of my own personal biases. maybe i'll be a judge someday when i grow up.
you have to work pretty hard for me not to like you or give you the benefit of the doubt.
in general, i try to be a responsible citizen of the world.
i am truly humbled by the beauty (zion national park) and
forces (sandy and katrina) of nature. if it's not too late, maybe we can actually get on a path to leave at least a semblance of a sustainable planet to future generations.
i am the father of two young men, 24 and 27, of whom i am very proud.
i have a great support system of family and close friends, many of whom go back 20, 30, 40 and more than a few, 50 years.
i'm told that i'm funny...humor is in the eyes, ears, nose and throat of the beholder!
i'm also told that i have excellent kissing skills---try me!
my ambition is to find a 50 to 60-something, confident, caring, intelligent, honest, fit, passionate and compassionate woman.
i'd like to make it to 80+,
healthy and happy...sharing it with the love of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to keep my small business afloat.
trying to stay in shape.
maintaining an active social life with family and friends.
working on plan b: creating a unique and evolving art form--already on exhibit in a few select galleries, lobbies, eating establishments and residences.
'putting myself out there' to find a meaningful relationship.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel comfortable, many sports (except golf)
laughing, listening, music trivia, kissing,
playing devil's advocate,
assessing physical and musical skills
keeping and maintaining long term friendships- many 40-50yrs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
easy smile, green eyes, shiny head, laugh lines, being friendly and polite... and left-handed, if you're really astute.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
in no particular order: mystery, murder or political thrillers for escape, historical novels, sci-fi,
interesting bios... a wrinkle in time,
ludlum, michener, steven king, asimov, baldacci
lee child, hunger games, rachel maddow, naomi
klein--shock doctrine, 'the panther'-n. deville
(my mother was a librarian for 30 yrs.) npr, 60 minutes,
movies- silver linings playbook, argo, lincoln, life of pi, american hustle, sound of music,
intouchables, casablanca, african queen, gone with the wind, it's a wonderful life, adjustment bureau, matrix, gladiator
the sting, close encounters, aladdin, enemy of the state, coen bros., john huston, hitchcock, rod serling, bogey, di caprio,
woody allen, daniel day-lewis, meryl streep, george clooney, jack nicholson, will smith, ed norton, jon stewart, colbert, robin williams, billy crystal, whoopie goldberg,
sarah silverman, chris rock, lewis black, more of course.
almost any broadway show, music: jazz, classic rock, blues, bluegrass, classical, reggae, big band, american songbook, --- ella, nat king cole, bonnie, b.b. dave mathews, allmans, pink floyd, u2, chick corea, al di meola, weather report, return to forever, bela fleck, lyle lovett, satchmo, k.d. lang, joe pass, tommy emmanuel, victor wootten, paul simon, kenny rankin, johnny cash, johnny hartman, norah jones, diana krall, tull, king crimson, sinatra, ray la montagne, pat metheny, beatles, stones, of course, the who, hendrix, clapton, traffic,
bing crosby's voice, steely dan, joni mitchell, michael franks, karen carpenter's voice, carole king, james taylor, c,s,n,y, santana, grover washington jr. coltrane, miles, moody blues, dylan.... so many more.

i've seen many, many concerts during the 70's and beyond, (most of which i actually remember!)
not into much hard core country, today's metal and
very limited rap. most ethnic food, italian, thai, indian, portuguese, mexican, middle eastern, ethiopian,
moari (just kidding), shrimp on the barby, anything
i cook on the grill.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, my boys, music,
close friends to confide in,
being involved with sports,
reading, the sunday times,
being around interesting people who like to
laugh and play,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
ways to redistribute (yes, i said it), with minimal financial pain,
a sliver of the wealth and resources of
this country and the world, so that EVERYONE has at least the minimum: food, clean water, shelter, education and some kind of healthcare.
the partisan, hypocritical, paralyzed state of politics.
improving myself.
new artistic ideas.
memories: pleasant and not so...mostly learning from, not dwelling on.
what qualities i'm looking for in a woman.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends or inviting them over, or
sometimes just relaxing after a long work week...
nothing typical here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have a...... occasionally.
i also have a sweet tooth, but balance it out with one from the other side.'s private!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you dare, and are looking for sincerity, a little humor, unabashed honesty (thanks mom!) and share at
least some of my interests....

if you got this far, you might as well message me now.