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rogue_optimist

29 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), LISP (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Addicted to the startup game, and very very lucky to be leading a badass engineering team in SF at a company that's legitimately trying to make the world a better place.

Beyond work, I'm exploring the city, going on hikes, watching movies, and going to a lot of stereotypical techie house parties with craft beer and board games.

Lately I've been getting into running, usually I do a 5K at least once a week and have dreams of doing longer runs soon!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lots of people have a hard time putting a finger on my exact ethnicity. People from middle-America have assumed I'm 100% Asian., while people who grew up in Asia will often assume I'm 100% white. Californians are usually best at pegging me as a halfie. Now, if you can successfully guess specific ethnicities on both sides, drinks are on me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: All the King's Men by Robert Penn Warren is undoubtedly my favorite novel. Reading a few chapters of a first-edition first printing of this book at Powell's Bookstore in Portland is one of the closes things I've had to a personal spiritual experience.

Moneyball is my favorite non-fiction book. It rekindled my love of baseball, and I use it as an inspiration/benchmark for how to break past conventional wisdom.

As a kid, I loved The Wizard of Oz series by L. Frank Baum.

Movies:

I have a bit of a soft spot for mindfucks and gimmicks, so Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Memento, and Adaptation are three of my favorites.

I am a hack for anything Coen Brothers. A Serious Man perfectly captured the nihilist streak that runs through all the Jewish culture-stuff that I absorbed growing up.

When I'm feeling down there's nothing I like better than light-hearted action movies that don't take themselves terribly seriously. Examples are Serenity, Pirates of the Caribbean, Zombieland etc.

Music: A mix of classic rock, indie rock, occasionally r&b. I used to be more dogmatic/judgmental about top 40 but then I realized I was just being a snob.

Example favorites: The Beatles, Frank Ocean, Arcade Fire, Gorillaz, Of Monsters & Men, Jefferson Airplane
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Really I think this question should be answered by everyone with a list like "Food, Water, Oxygen, etc"...you're probably more resilient (emotionally) than you think you are! You've just probably never had the occasion to really push your limits...and that's a good thing; living the tough life is romanticized a little too much.

But yeah, the six things I could never live without are you know, friends, family, truth, beauty, love, Nintendo, blah blah blah...that sort of stuff, right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the world will be like five, ten, twenty years from now. I used to read lots of sci-fi and speculative fiction as a kid, and the best thing about my work is that I get to do the same thing as a "grown-up". We're building the future out here, and I love talking with people about what that will end up being like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
One of the following:
-Hanging out with a big group for food and/or music and/or board games
-Drinking with co-workers
-Working away at the office, because the dream won't build itself.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like geeking out about something. Doesn't have to be someone I'm into; I love learning new things! Being really into and knowing a lot about something a little offbeat is super-attractive.

You get along well with warm, earnest people (the dark, brooding type I am not).

Or, you just want to!