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25 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:53am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Very often
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on med school
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hello there! I actually live in Seattle currently, but will be headed to Fairbanks from Nov 10-Dec 22 and am looking to meet some rad people to hang out with while I'm there! (especially people who want to adopt me for T-day, show me the Fairbanks winter adventures, or just want a rad friend/date/pen pal.) Feel free to message me if you live in eithe Fairbanks or Seattle!

Seattle people forewarning: I'm super busy with med school, a partner, two adorable dogs, and the rest of life. However, if you are a kind person looking for a once-in-a-while date and makeout kind of friend, or someone to paint and draw and write with, please message me and I'll do my best to get back to you:)


Wannabe social worker-turned-medical student, recent Phoenix to Seattle transplant, in a totally awesome open long term relationship with EmmaThatsColdMan, but looking for friends, art buddies, people who know of good house shows, makeouts, and adventures! Identify as "queer" more than bi since there are definitely more than two genders, but whatever okc.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've issued a new challenge to myself--I'll attempt to take a interesting portrait of any person who asks me to on OKC. Maybe something intriguing will come of it. I shoot 6x6 film so it certainly isn't a quick thing, but I'll switch to digital if we have to.
Studying lots, enjoying Seattle sun, swimming, running, photographing, drinking, dancing, biking, running an HIV testing organization, and doing laundry once in a while.
Portlandia mirrors my life a little too accurately sometimes.
I'm in medical school and hoping to be like a socialist pediatrician or something with reproductive justice and HIV care focus, but a year to figure that out yet. Mostly interested in social justice medicine and trying to make the medical system a little less racist, transphobic, classist, colonialist, ableist, sizeist, etc.
I used to work as a sexual health educator and immigration and prison abolition activist, so always looking for ways to get into those sorts of things around Seattle again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making messes and blowing bubbles
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a tall lanky dude who has a ridiculous grin. Or that guy trying to run after the bus (oh why did it have to leave on time?!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: JRR and JK, John le Carre, Sherman Alexie, Tom Robbins, Carl Hiaasen, bell hooks, Chandra Mohanty, Rachel Remen, Uma Narayan, Andrea Smith

Movies: Eternal sunshine, waking life, rent, artsy fartsy shit

Shows: GoT, Scrubs, Firefly, Dr. Who before it got awful, Elementary

Music: talib kweli, Sigur ros, patsy cline, Margot and the nuclear so and sos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Please steal all my shit. If you could leave my dog and some food, and maybe a bike that would be cool, though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The miracles of the human body.

How awesome consent is.

The injustice of wearing pants.

How adorable Seattle is when it's drunk on sunlight.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Hiking" Capitol Hill, avoiding raindrops, trying to remember what stars look like.

Or battening down the hatches for a Netflix marathon with beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dog weighs six pounds and I proudly walk him around, sometimes in god-awful adorable outfits

I really like that thing you like to geek out over, whatever it is.

You can check out my art school photos if you want. I keep saying I'll put sketches and sculptures up too, but life is too busy to make to-dos into to-dones.

I love consent, which means platonic adventures are awesome, cuddling and nothing else is awesome, makeouts are awesome, sex and all that weird stuff is awesome, but most of all communication and consent are awesome. Chances are pretty good that I'm down for things you like. Message me and find out?

I'm also a site moderator on here, so best watch yerself!
You should message me if
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No, like really I don't have any time. But you should message me if you want to show me around Fairbanks, or how to survive the cold and dark. Or you should still message me if you are anyone who is cool and wants to go find good beer, good art, good music, good dancing, and wants to makeout afterwards. If we can't find any art, I guess we will just have to make some.

You are a cute boy who isn't some MRA/manarchist/etc. Extra points for your killer moustache.
You want to read things aloud to me, or have me read to you
You wanna practice Spanish with me.
You are a weird art person who wants someone to talk about art/make art with/go to galleries/trade art/model/help with your next performance art piece.
You want to trade massages (I was Thai Massage certified in 2009, but have since let it expire as I don't practice anymore)
You are looking for a third, or you wanna play with sub/Dom power dynamics and talk the politics of them as well.
You are looking for someone to play Dominion or Pandemic or some other strange board game with.
You are just looking for friends in Seattle! We can go on cool adventures!
You just want someone to deliver you a bottle of wine and a back rub and then leave and never interact again. Who doesn't want that?
Or, (best of all)
You just want to send a nice message that says cutesy kind things! I like that!

I tend to be pitiful at online messaging, so feel free jump ahead and to move right on to the "lets meet here at this time" messages--i won't be offended or think you are a creep especially if you are honest about your intentions.

Hell, just message me if you read this far. You are probably a neat person!

We likely won't get along if you answered in your questions that you prefer to date your race, you wouldn't even think of going on a date with someone with HIV (I am neg, but don't be a stigmatizer) or that you think people with lower IQs shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. If you want clarification as to why these are problematic, feel free to ask.

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