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My self-summary Propose an edit

I know how to fold fitted sheets, and I'll cook chicken soup for you when you're sick. I love board games and am not a sore loser (usually...um, that may be a lie). Sometimes I'm a homebody and revel in my solitude, and suddenly I'm a social bee, eager to make new friends and have new adventures. It's all about balance, right?

You should be smart, kind, ambitious and open-minded -- meatheads need not apply! I'm looking for someone who's also handsome, self-aware, emotionally available, and that magical mix of funny/serious, high-/low-brow and laid-back/neurotic. Ultimately it comes down to chemistry, and I'll know you when I see you and you'll know me too.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I work as an art librarian, which means I'm surrounded by beautiful-looking and -smelling books. Update: I got a new job, so I now work in academia with periodicals, in print and electronically. If you need a journal article, I can help.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Tetris

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I have a nice rack.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: What We Talk About When We Talk About Love/Raymond Carver : Story of the Eye/Georges Bataille : A Moveable Feast/Ernest Hemingway : The Collected Stories of Amy Hempel

Movies: Annie Hall, Jules et Jim, Amelie, That Obscure Object of Desire, Shaun of the Dead, Breathless, Rushmore, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Blow-Up

Music: The Village Green Preservation Society/the Kinks : If You're Feeling Sinister/Belle and Sebastian : Here Come the Warm Jets/Brian Eno : Doolittle/Pixies : Loveless/My Bloody Valentine : 77 & Fear of Music (tie)/Talking Heads : A Love Supreme/John Coltrane : Comic Strip/Serge Gainsbourg : Illinois/Sufjan Stevens : Nashville Skyline/Bob Dylan : Orange Blossom Special/Johnny Cash : Astral Weeks/Van Morrison : In the Aeroplane Over the Sea/Neutral Milk Hotel. Oh, and I just discovered Karl Blau and am in love.

Food: Mmm, pretty much all food gets me excited (minus: baby corn, bell peppers, raisins and water chestnuts).

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

seltzer, brunch, clicky pencils, cats who live in stores, solo dance parties, sleeping in

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

everything + nothing

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

relaxing at home with a glass of wine and a Netflix, or spending time with friends, out and about. Typical is overrated.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Secrets are best traded in person, don't you think?

You should message me if Propose an edit

you're a dreamy hybrid of Leonard Cohen, Serge Gainsbourg, Stephin Merritt and Morrissey. But no pressure! Feel free to write if you just wanna say hello (I'm sure I'll be flattered).

Also, if you wear a beard, glasses and button-down shirts under sweaters I will probably have a crush on you.

Oh, and I absolutely love computer programmer types. Calling Apple tech support makes me woozy, and the Genius Bar makes me swoon.

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roman_à_clef: 403 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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