For a long time now I've known that sexually I'm dominant. What does that mean? It means that when the lights are off I enjoy the kinkier activities as opposed to the plain old missionary position.

While I'm ideally looking for an LTR romance is not just hard to find but also hard to maintain, and at this point in my life I know I don't have the time nor energy for a relationship so what I'm looking for is a more casual relationship that revolves around D/s and BDSM. If an LTR develops out of it I won't say no.

I've dominated and trained young and old so age is not a big factor for me. Neither is body type or skin color.

Things I'm good at and enjoy include: bondage, spanking, flogging, obedience training, breast bondage, slapping and humiliation, and more.

I know this is an unusual profile so if you find it offensive please move on. If you are interested though please say hi. Experience with any of the things I mentioned is not necessary as long as you're willing to experiment.

I have a great job which takes up most of my waking hours.

Calming people down. Whether it's laughter on the first date, or figuring out what to do under pressure.

In the bedroom I'd say I'm pretty good at bondage.

Is my smile which later transforms into all around charm.

In the bedroom the first thing would be that I'm stern. I have my way of doing things and that's something you'll have to learn to obey.

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Hanging out. Outside of the bedroom I'm very easy going.

I like spanking a girl until she cries. It's a very intense and intimate feeling on both ends...

For the record, I don't enjoy seeing any girl cry for any reason. That's plain weird.

you're an independent girl who yearns to give up control in the bedroom.