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50 Summit, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–47
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 1:26pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a well traveled professional (who is really more of a scientist and an artist), fit, financially secure, unsuccessfully married, looking for a friend with benefits: one woman, a true friend, that I can connect with on all levels, on a regular basis.

I love talking into the night, in a coffee shop, a good restaurant, or in bed -- before or after -- and there is nothing I would not discuss. Fears and fantasies, politics and movies, fetishes and what goes through your mind and body. How do you feel about things? How do you see the world? How do you see yourself? What can we do to make our existence here, more pleasurable, more exciting, more meaningful.

You must be intelligent, curious, open minded, and hopefully with a wild side.

You also must be a sub.

I like traveling, both for culture and adventures. I have been to Budapest, and to the Everest, I love Paris, but also the Sahara. I lived in Asia for many years, and love the cultures. I love reading books, good restaurants, and in general I am pretty complex and intense. At times I can chill and relax, I love such times.

And what about the benefits? I hear you ask.

I have a high sex drive, but that does not mean I want sex with every girl I meet. With the right one, there is nothing I find more beautiful than her face having an orgasm. There is nothing I find more exciting than the moments before, when your body is begging for release.

You have to be local, or at least not too far. I want a friend and a lover, and as amazing as you might be, face to face time is important.

What about my face photo? Well, I am looking for someone local, and as a high profile professional, I have to be cautious. So I will send face photos, once I know who you are.

I am in a dry marriage. It's absolutely fine if you are not into married men, this is your choice. I am making mine.

The practical side of being married will not be too restrictive, as I do spend my weekdays, and some weekends away from home.

So if you reached that far, you know a lot about me, maybe too much. But I know what I want, and I don't play game. So if you are still reading, we may have something in common -- drop me a line. I am open and honest with no taboos. So just say hi, maybe add something about yourself, and lets see what happens next.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After a series of short story, I am trying to finish my first novel, a challenge like no other
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation and listening
Kissing (the entire body)
Scuba Diving -- this is what I am really really good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall
I smile
I listen
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Traditional Japanese movies
Modern Korean movies
Monty Python
The Godfather

TV Shows:
The Big Bang Theory

Across the Nightingale Floor
Alice in Wonderland

Pink Floyd
Elton John

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great conversation
Japanese Food (izakaya in particular)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't think there is much I don't think about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a great conversation, read a book, making passionate love
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seem like a professional business person, but my real passions are science and art.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are Japanese or passionate about Japan and what to share this passion.

Or / and

You want a true friend and a lover, whom you want to really know, and to whom you are willing to open your mind and heart.