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50 Norwalk, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 2" (1.89m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Currently not looking for love or relationship. I keep my profile here to keep in touch with some good friends I met here.

I am a well traveled professional (my passion is Asia), fit, financially secure, looking for a friend with benefits: one woman, a true friend, that I can connect with on all levels, on a regular basis.

I love talking into the night, in a coffee shop, a good restaurant, or in bed -- before or after -- and there is nothing I would not discuss. Fears and fantasies, politics and movies, fetishes and what goes through your mind and body. How do you feel about things? How do you see the world? How do you see yourself? What can we do to make our existence here, more pleasurable, more exciting, more meaningful.

You must be intelligent, curious, open minded, and hopefully with a wild side.

I like traveling, both for culture and adventures. I have been to Budapest, and to the Everest, I love Paris, but also the Sahara. I lived in Asia for many years, and love the cultures. I love reading books, good restaurants, and in general I am pretty complex and intense. At times I can chill and relax, I love such times.

And what about the benefits? I hear you ask.

I have a high sex drive, but that does not mean I want sex with every girl I meet. With the right one, there is nothing I find more beautiful than her face having an orgasm. There is nothing I find more exciting than the moments before, when your body is begging for release.

You have to be local, or at least not too far. I want a friend and a lover, and as amazing as you might be, face to face time is important.

What about my face photo? Well, I am looking for someone local, and as a high profile professional, I have to be cautious. So I will send face photos, once I know who you are.

So if you reached that far, you know a lot about me, maybe too much. But I know what I want, and I don't play game. So if you are still reading, we may have something in common -- drop me a line. I am open and honest with no taboos. So just say hi, maybe add something about yourself, and lets see what happens next.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After a series of short stories and a few poems, I am trying to finish my first novel, a challenge like no other
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation and listening
Kissing (the entire body)
Scuba Diving -- this is what I am really really good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall
I smile
I listen
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Traditional Japanese movies
Modern Korean movies
Monty Python
The Godfather

TV Shows:
The Big Bang Theory

Across the Nightingale Floor
Alice in Wonderland

Pink Floyd
Elton John

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The four S's:
Scuba diving
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't think there is much I don't think about, but this week I am trying to figure out why the number of fake female profile has increased so drastically in the last few days, and whether it is just solicitation, or whether OKC is adding these profile to increase traffic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a great conversation, read a book, making passionate love
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seem like a professional business person, but my real passions are science and art.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a true friend and a lover, whom you want to really know, and to whom you are willing to open your mind and heart.