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39 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:15am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm generally mellow, easy to laugh, on the quieter side. A good listener.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a small NGO that focuses on women and children's health in Africa, Latin America, and Haiti. I do HR for them. At the same time, I'm in school for massage therapy. Can't wait to get out of the office, but very grateful for the paycheck I'm getting from it now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, dancing, waking up very early and working long days, being with children, lying in the grass, providing clear direction.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I stand straight up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the wind up bird chronicle, just kids, forest people, gorillas in the mist, paul coelho, the velveteen rabibit, winnie the pooh, the knife, antony & the johnsons, amadou & mariam, baba maal, ry cooder, kate bush, laurie anderson, william blake, caravaggio, picasso, juan miro, jackson pollack, chogyam trungpa rinpoche, rodney smith, patti smith, phillip seymour hoffman, breaking bad, sillicon valley, live jazz when i can find it, choral music, buddhist chanting in the theravada tradition, some yogi chants, country blue grass, flutes, jimi hendrix, the heartless bastards, nick drake, john lee hooker, lou reed, the police, ac/dc :-), green curry, nam pang, taco chulo, salads at pret a manger, chocolate chip cookies, grapefruit, cherries, blueberries....etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Yoga, stillness, dance, sex, music, laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Good question: what was I thinking?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often, home or in the neighborhood close to home. Too many people out there on Fridays!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open, generally. Not much to hide.
You should message me if
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You're straightforward, warm, affectionate and under 50.