I can be rather chaotic. For instance, I lose things a lot. For the life of me, I can't remember what I did with it, where I saw it last or whether or not I had it with me at all.
I can be very insecure at times. In my work, in social situations (this may sound worse than it is, if you meet me, you probably wouldn't notice that I feel insecure in social situations) (but I do). In matters of romance, I feel insecure. I seem to fall in love with 'the wrong people'.
Then again, I have been called intimidating more than once. I'm the kind of person who can be annoyed by spellling mistakes in the paper and who can pick up a paper and then blurt out things like "'ofwel' means 'of' and 'oftewel' means 'met andere woorden' and why on earth is that so hard to understand?".
I'm romantic and very naive.
I like maths and I like poetry and theology and texts in general. I tend to go on and on about situations between people. I can go on for half an hour about a couple of seconds' conversation at the supermarket that to me 'says something' about human behaviour.
I never did internet dating because I didn't find it romantic. But perhaps I shouldn't be so 'precious' about it. (can you say that, is that a right use of the word 'precious'?)
Having (completely normal and attractive) friends who do this and actually meet someone really nice, helps as well.
Ah, by the way, now that I'm trying to find things that typify me, I just thought of something. I procrastinate sometimes. This profile for instance. I took me a long time to get started on it.
What else? I have a busy job, that I really love but that takes up too much of my time. I wish I had more time to sing and dance and act and read and crochet and pot.
Having been on this site for some time now and having met some men, I find that I'm often described as 'original', 'different' or 'fascinating'.