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My details

Last online
Today – 3:56am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Used up
Working on university
More than $1,000,000
Open relationship
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, and wants more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
mostly I'm a quiet and self-effacing dude. I have a baby, he's 16 months old and chatters like a bird.. dadden! dadden! dadden! he calls me.
somehow he's already learned how to say "fuck" and "vulva", which is sort of an indication of the kind of parents we are. whatever you want to make of that :)
I'm inclined towards esoteric pursuits and have strong ecological values. I perceive we humans to be beautiful animals who carry some spark of the transcendent that departs at the moment of death, but I value the views of anyone who holds true to their own lived experience.
I'm already pretty burned out on this life. some seeds need to pass through the fire before they can grow, I guess? fingers crossed..
What I’m doing with my life
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raising a baby. studying to be a healer/bodyworker. thinking about the future of my bioregion after the crash/climate apocalypse. planning to someday live with a tribe of my friends and heal the earth and fight off passing cannibal armies.
also i am in a band with my brother and sister-in-law. we play old time string band music and throw square dances.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading people. especially faces and bodies.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the toddler who outshines me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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tom robbins,derrick jensen, daniel quinn, jd salinger, terence mckenna, edward hall, joseph campbell, eckhart tolle, chris hedges, michael pollan, assorted writers on food/culture. animal vegetable miracle, amusing ourselves to death, a pattern language, le petit prince or pretty much any meaningful children's book.

miyazaki, not disney.

music: beirut joanna newsom, regina spektor, the mountain goats, arcade fire, tv on the radio, joy kills sorrow, bela fleck old time american field recordings, jeff buckley, ghosts and vodka, owls, aram khachaturian, mike marshall, loney dear, janelle monae, neutral milk hotel, tallest man on earth, blitzen trapper!, vampire weekend, john hartford, anathallo, radiohead, fiona apple, godspeed you black emperor, the knife, shpongle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
future tribes. permaculture. gender politics & how to have a healthy father-son relationship that isn't all baseball & shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
delivering egg rolls. when I don't work, sometimes I have friends over to play music & make smores around a bonfire. it's a placid existence here. we don't dance til we die, we don't shake it out. when we get down we get right back up and pretend like we didn't mean it. lolll #midwest
it's not that I actively try to avoid high-energy groups of people. but most of the time I feel as though people are just forcing it, and I would rather not. after a day spent guiding my young charge through a series of potential catastrophes, i don't have the energy to go at it like I'm 18, y'know?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i believe corporate mind control is sort of real