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  • Ages 18-60
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My details

Last online
Online now!
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Working on University
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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hairy feminist gorilla dad.
What I’m doing with my life
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raising a baby, studying to be a healer, cooking & gardening & building stuff. I'm in a string band with my brother and sister in law and we have square dances and gig when we get the chance. mostly I just hide from the locals because they don't approve of my way of existence. my friends are poets and gardeners.
I’m really good at
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overwhelming body empathy
The first things people usually notice about me
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nothing i am invisible
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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tom robbins, derrick jensen, daniel quinn, jd salinger, terence mckenna, stephen harrod buhner, david abram, bill plotkin, a pattern language, le petit prince

love me some miyazaki !

music: mostly trad and bluegrass.
joanna newsom, the mountain goats, arcade fire, tv on the radio, joy kills sorrow, bela fleck, jeff buckley, ghosts and vodka, owls, this town needs guns, loney dear, janelle monae, neutral milk hotel, owls, tallest man on earth, anathallo, blitzen trapper, john hartford, john prine, radiohead, fiona apple, godspeed you black emperor, the knife, shpongle, grateful dead, joni mitchell, elliott smith, nick drake
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
rolling deep or flying high
jk. cooking dinner and washing dishes like every other night.