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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 19
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Other, and laughing about it
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
hi, I'm stephen!. fact #1: I have a toddler named juniper who likes to call me dadden (dad + stephen). me and his mama are in an open relationship and live together in a small town. we lived for a while in a housing cooperative in iowa city that was full of hairy feminist radicals like us.
My interests include fiddling, homesteading, natural building, permaculture, intentional community and polyamory.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
raising a baby, studying to be a healer, cooking & gardening & building stuff. I'm in a string band with my brother and sister in law and we have square dances and gig when we get the chance. mostly I just hide from the locals because they don't approve of my way of existence. luckily we have some friends like us- mostly they are gardeners/small farmers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
body empathy? like, I feel what other people are feeling in their bodies, sometimes to an overwhelming extent. which is why i want to be a healer & do transformational bodywork.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"HEY QUEER!" -actual quote from my neighbors
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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tom robbins, derrick jensen, daniel quinn, jd salinger, terence mckenna, stephen harrod buhner, david abram, bill plotkin, a pattern language, le petit prince

love me some miyazaki !

music: mostly I play traditional and bluegrass. that being said here is the List:
joanna newsom, regina spektor, the mountain goats, arcade fire, tv on the radio, joy kills sorrow, bela fleck, jeff buckley, ghosts and vodka, owls, loney dear, janelle monae, neutral milk hotel, tallest man on earth, blitzen trapper, vampire weekend, john hartford, anathallo, radiohead, fiona apple, godspeed you black emperor, the knife, shpongle, grateful dead, joni mitchell, elliott smith
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my fiddle & guitar
yerba mate & coffee
coconut oil
mary oliver poetry collection
want to say my baby but he is an actual person & not a thing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
permaculture, depth psychology, communal living
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
meditating, trance dancing, worshiping the goddess, making smores, fantasizing about the post-petroleum world
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i still want to save the world?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you're into permaculture/homesteading, especially if you live in the midwest
if you're into me
if you are poly/queer/hairy/a kind person
if you want kisses