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25 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:18am
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a 25 year old gender/queer with a weakness for clever word play and androgyny.

I am pretty curious about most things and am always looking to improve myself and experience new things and challenges.

Oh, and I'm queer, not gay. I think women and non-binary gendered folks are super sexy.

Please read the "you should message me if" section before messaging me. :)

Apparently I'm a 99% match with myself. Even I don't get me 100%...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I usually have some personal/artistic project in the works. It feels like if I don't do something, I will disappear. Quarter life crisis, perhaps? Either way, it feels like I'm doing what is important to me and resonates with others so I will continue.

Some of the things I am doing: writing for a feminist magazine/blog, making music in my band(s) and now solo. I also recently became an actor and playwright, which I never would have expected and somehow that has paid more bills than the things I went to school for. (I'm just happy/impressed that it paid any bills.)

I always have a project in the works, on top of a 40 hour work week, but somehow I'm still bored. You should ask me out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing music
Being awkward
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People notice my skin. Many have been telling me I have great skin, lately. It's really weird.

Oh and my confidence. Apparently I exude a quiet confidence, whatever that means.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Written On The Body - Jeanette Winterson
Anarchy Evolution - Greg Graffin
Quiet - Susan Cain
I Am America (And So Can You!) - Stephen T. Colbert
Junky - William S. Burroughs
The Rebel Sell - Joseph Heath/Andrew Potter

Mother Mother
Been into Sleater-Kinney and Michael Jackson lately...

Beautiful Boxer
Pulp Fiction
Avatar/Legend of Korra
Orange is the new Black (obviously)

Dal Makhani
(Greasy) Veggie Pizza
Veggie sushi
My "secret" chili recipe (that I suppose I would probably easily share, if asked)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Lip balm
My wardrobe
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe, politics, queer stuff, beeeeeeees, gender, privilege (and checking my own), compassion, transmisogyny, Palestine (don't message me if you're a Zionist...but don't if you're an anti-Semite either), what fulfillment is, socialization and braiiiins (cause neuroscience is cool).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ask me out for a Friday and you'll soon find out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am really bad at remembering faces (like, even my own), so sometimes I will click on someone's profile several times because I don't recognize them (especially when they add a new photo) and then I never message them because I've psyched myself out since I know they've probably seen me in their visitors so many times. So if I've done this to you, maybe message me (BECAUSE I'M CLEARLY TOO AWKWARD TO MESSAGE YOU).

The bright side of dealing with some face blindness effects is that I get to check people out for the first time all the time.

And more divisive than cilantro: I don't like and rarely use the Oxford/serial comma.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're waiting for me to message you first. Just message me! I'm either too shy or busy to message first, but if I like the message/profile, I will probably respond.

You admire funny, awkward and intelligent weirdos.

You want to date me *en français.*

You're trans-positive (mandatory) and you know what genderqueer means (google it).

You don't fetishize trans (or any other) bodies.

You're polyamourous/poly-friendly (if you want to date me, that is, as I'm seeing someone non-exclusively right now).

You can part ways with perfume/fragrance, as I am hypersensitive to these and really can't be around them.

You wanna skip the formalities.

*If you're a man, please don't message me."