I'm in an open marriage to wineandgames. We're quite a bit different, but share a lot in common as well, and are very close. I also have a wonderful boyfriend I met here and am not looking for new romantic/sexual relationships right now.
My Personality and Interests
I'm an ENFP (low E), a kid-at-heart, playful, open, warm, passionate, open-minded, introspective, straightforward and quirky. OK, maybe weird, but normal is boring! ;) I like to be silly, but I also very much enjoy deep conversation. I don't think I could live happily without either of those things. I'm also an excitable and enthusiastic person and I express my feelings openly and often. Please feel free to be direct with me; I appreciate that! :)
I love reading, writing, photography, learning, exploring and making new friends. I'm very interested in language, accents, culture, gender, and sexuality.
I don't like society's expectations, assumptions, and labels. Everyone is beautifully unique.
"Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” -- Marilyn Monroe
I place little weight on weight and other physical attributes, but I know it matters to some, so I'll say this:
I'm fat, zaftig, Rubenesque, plump, full-figured, round, curvy (but not hourglass), voluptuous, squishy, squeezy, and soft. :) I figured it's better to sort that out right away since it's quite an issue to some. I yam what I yam and that's all that I yam. And I like yams, especially with marshmallows and butter. (I know what we eat in the US are typically sweet potatoes, though, and not yams.)
What I Like In Others
I love this big, beautiful world and the fascinating, wonderfully unique people that inhabit it. I am attracted to men (of all types) and masculinity (in others), mostly. I also appreciate androgyny and gender ambiguity. I like crossdressers, trans people (especially transmen), intersex people, and guys who are bi or open-minded sexually. I mainly consider myself open rather than bi, although I'm definitely not purely straight. My favorite qualities in a person are kindness and humor. I also appreciate intelligence and a touch (or a liberal dose) of the bizarre.
I also like sensitive, deep-thinking, deep-feeling people who don't mind sharing their thoughts and feelings with me, as they are able.
Whimsical Section-Ending, lol
I enjoy puns, palindromes, parodies, pineapple, people, punctuation, prostate play, personality tests, and kilts.