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29 Bloomington, IN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:07am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a lot of things. But here are the most important. I love to laugh, and to share life with people that matter to me. I don't do anything halfway, there just isn't enough time to be insincere, or to deal with people who are.

I enjoy trying new things, food, books, film, cities. It is exciting to be doing something for the first time, and I would try just about anything once.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now: I'm challenging myself to enjoy each moment more, and not to worry about things that are uncertain. I spend most of my time with people, books and cross-stitching, in that order.

I'm reading 3 - 5 books at any given time, and I love being outside. I am waiting for BYOB parks to become a thing. You know, chill under a tree with some friends and whatever boozy goodness you have a on hand. I don't drink often, but this would be ideal when I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art! I especially love expressing my creativity through cakes. I've worked at a few bakeries and done some freelance work creating everything from traditional wedding cakes to a three dimensional duck. I also craft, sketch and paint when I can.

Cooking. I love trying new recipes as much as perfecting my favorites. Currently, I am testing Thai flavors, and it is going pretty well. If things don't work out there, I make a mean grilled cheese with avocado, tomato and mustard.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, because they do magic tricks with their color, unbeknownst to me.
My hair.
My laugh. It's fairly sizable for someone of my stature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm on a John Irving kick lately. Listening to "In One Person" and reading Garp. I love his complicated messy human characters.

My opinions about movies are really broad. I'm willing to watch almost anything, but recently I was really moved by "Beasts of the Southern Wild" - simply stunning.

I adore St. Vincent, Sleigh Bells, and The Lumineers. Any gypsy jangle music is going to make me tap my toes.

Food. The best meal I've ever had was the Three Little Piggies sandwich at the Silver Palm in Chicago. I am always in the mood for Mediterranean or Bi Bim Bop. If it is cooked with care, I will appreciate it. Bad meals are not worth eating.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Love - in any of its many forms
3. Transportation (my own car or public transport)
4. Art
5. A way to stay in contact. Yes, pen and paper count.
6. Books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to go next and how to eliminate all the material stuff. 100 Things is simultaneously fascinating and terrifying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I lost the tip of my left ring finger to a pair of hair shears while cutting my bangs... Not terribly accident prone, but when I am, I make it count.
You should message me if
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You find something about me interesting and you are OK with friendships that allow for spontaneity and rainy day company with zero expectations.