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32 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:15pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here are the basics on me: I'm 31, tall, fit, feminine and attractive, or so I'm told. I am smart, well educated, funny, sarcastic and outgoing. I am as comfortable at an up-tight, formal, professional event as I am drinking cheap liquor at a dive bar.

Here's the situation. I am in a blissfully happy, fulfilling and committed marriage with the love of my life (he's rightroundbaby if you're interested). Lucky for me, he happens to be the sort of guy who not just permits, but encourages and even loves for me to have my fun and tell him all of the dirty details (pictures are a bonus). As you can imagine, I'm looking for someone who shares similar interests and temperament and with whom I share palpable sexual chemistry.

Obviously I'm looking more for a FWB arrangement, but a real connection, sense of respect and ability to be completely communicative is of utmost importance. Without the mental connection, the build up and the ongoing sexual tension that comes with legitimate chemistry, I get crazy bored. I need someone who is challenging, who will make me think and laugh. I'd like to find someone who can be my ongoing boyfriend/FWB on the side, not just my occasional booty call, although I'll certainly take one or two of those as well ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've got a lot going on with work at a thriving startup that requires fairly long hours and lots of travel. Plus, I manage to have a social life (at times), work out 4-6 days a week, practice my gluten-free cooking and watch a shit-load of Timbers matches.

Needless to say, I'm a busy girl. You be busy too. Be interesting. Be ambitious (and I don't mean about money). Enjoy challenge, excitement, adventure. Excel at something. Have passion. Be able to teach me things and want to learn as well. I work hard to surround myself with people that leave me in awe, get my brain working and stimulate me in any number of ways.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying calm when surrounded by chaos.
Connecting with people of all backgrounds, personalities and interests.
Being brutally honest when no one else wants to be - seriously, don't ask me for advice if you aren't prepared to hear the truth.
Planning, organizing and executing fairly complex events.
Writing research papers and case analyses.
Throwing brunch parties.
Driving stick.

Oh, and blow jobs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm tall, laugh a lot, gesticulate wildly, and that maybe I'm a little loud - in the bedroom, very loud. I'm also incredibly sweet, affectionate and adventurous in all things:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wow, there's a lot to list...

Books: Sometimes a Great Notion by Kesey, White Teeth by Smith, anything Vonnegut, most things Easton Ellis although he is a total prick, and lots of historical, political or sociological. But I'll be honest, I don't read fiction nearly as much as I used to or would like to. Sigh.

Movies: I LOVE movies. I won't go through all the usual favorites because the list is crazy long and fairly typical.

Shows: Recently I am hooked on House of Cards, Orange is the New Black (how awesome are Netflix originals?!), Orphan Black, Luther (kind of obsessed with Idris Elba), Archer, Walking Dead...the list goes on and on.

Music: I've got pretty varied tastes, so I won't bore you with the list. Let's just say that lately I'm into everything from Gaga to Jason Isbell (Drive by Truckers) and John Newman to Jay Z.

And Food: I absolutely love to cook, and have pretty eclectic tastes here. Everything from ethnic food to good old fashioned staples. The slow cooker has been getting a lot of use lately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My husband, my dear friends and family, good wine, good food, entertainment (books, music, movies) and coffee. Everything else in life is negotiable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Generally, it's tough to turn my brain off. I pay pretty close attention to what goes on in the world around me (near and far), so I spend an inordinate amount of time thinking about everything from very important world matters to silly mundane things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner and drinks with the hubby and/or friends. Maybe there's a show in town, a soul night for some dancing or a party with friends. Although it's also pretty likely that I'm recouping from a long week with a candlelit dinner at home and a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book. Ask and I'll answer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are tall.

You live near me. Don't message me if you live in a foreign country or half way across the US. I'm not on here to skype with some stranger.

You are NOT trying to find someone with whom you can cheat on your wife or girlfriend. I will not help you be a liar and a cad. Plus, I have learned over the years that cheating is a MAJOR lady-boner killer for me.
You can string together a reasonably intelligent sentence.
You don't feel the need to tell me how big your cock is or how awesome you think you are in bed. Although if you have both attributes, you should definitely write me. :)

Also, you definitely WILL NOT get a response if all you do is write
a one liner with shitty grammar and tween girl text spelling about me being a QT and that you're DTF. Really?
You're interested in NSA sex with a hot girl?! Shocker! Actually say something or seriously don't even bother.