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ross_laughton

27 Lacey, WA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:23am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Military
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Update: I just moved to Lacey from Mesa AZ because my partner took a job up here to be closer to family. I don't know anyone up here so I'm looking to meet new people. Hopefully you can show me around a bit.

I'm self-reliant and extremely practical (terriesm calls me "Spock"). I'm modest, intelligent, kind, and compassionate. I use a coin flip to make decisions when I'm feeling indecisive. I don't smoke or do drugs, and I usually prefer to DD rather than drink. I go to the gym most days, but only because I love food.

I'm originally from northern New Hampshire (above the 45th parallel) and have been living in Phoenix since 2012. I earned my BS in Business Management from Plymouth State University, then my Master's in student Leadership and Development from University of the Pacific in Stockton CA. I was lucky to make it out of Stockton alive! Mostly kidding. I actually had a great experience there. I work at ASU Polytechnic now. I'm also in the National Guard and love it. I alo just recently got promoted so I am now a member of the NCO corps. I don't like to draw a lot of attention to it, but serving is a large part of who I am.

When I have free time, I like blues dancing, driving my Subaru WRX STI, riding my Honda CBR 600, hanging out with small groups of friends, playing video and computer games (Diablo and Civ V lately), bowling, and shooting. I like paintball, snowboarding, and snowmobiling, but haven't done much of those since I've been living in Arizona.

I am polyamorous. I am looking for relationships that are mutually supportive and open to this kind of experience.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently trying to find a job and with my spare time I figure I should try and get in better shape.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a really good teacher. I'm good at breaking things down into component parts and explaining them. I'm good at listening and giving practical advice. I'm a strong blues dancer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: World War Z, The Zombie survival Guide, Rich Dad Poor Dad, and the Ethical Slut was good. I'm also planning on reading Opening Up eventually.

Movies: I stream Netflix regularly and will pretty much watch anything. I especially like horror movies, but I watch a lot of comedies and action movies, twist my arm and I might watch cartoons. :-) Not particularly interested in anything with subtitles.

Shows: House of Cards, Scandal, Archer, Dexter, Orange is the new black, Battlestar Gallactica, the walking dead, the killing, how I met your mother, and Firefly are shows I've watched or rewatched recently.

YouTube channels: sexplanations, lacigreen, vlogbrothers, CrashCourse, MentalFloss, Amidsthenoise, TED, Fateofdestinee, Scishow, Colion Noir, Tactical Tunes, ERB, and SuperSecretProject.

Music: My radio is usually on Octane. I like hard rock, but I listen to alternative rock, sometimes pop or Top 40. Country is about the only thing I don't like.

Food: I love food, just plain good food. Yes to food! Except mushrooms - no to those, and no you won't be able to persuade me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, food, freedom, my bike, being active.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and what I should do with it, my career and what I should do with it next, my family and friends and how to see them more often. Planning for the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I don't have drill and I'm not on call for work, I am either with terriesm or out meeting someone new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's not really private but I feel it is important.
You should message me if
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You want to know more. You know what polyamory is or are open to the idea of non-monogamy. You're from New Hampshire or the northeast. You're a Patriots fan.

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