roughhewthem
51 Los Angeles, CA
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My self-summary
"In the depths of winter I finally found within me an invincible summer"--Camus

a blue fire
soul searching sensualist
deeply rooted romantic
compassionate but tough teacher
haiku poet
smart ass
health kook/foodie
humble carrier of the weight
child at heart
more (quite a bit) to the picture than meets the eye
"diaphanous wings float above a summer hurricane"

Devoted, kind, loyal, irreverent, individual, I seek a true bond of depth and wonder with a lovely woman whose sparkle will illuminate the deep firmament and take root within the bottom of my soul. I want the real gold: loving, enduring, mutually uplifting and strengthening. I will cherish you until the end of world.
What I’m doing with my life
cultivating eudaimonia
appreciating the manifold gift of life
refining my self-expression
betting on the muse
doing yoga
improving my character
making money
taking photos
writing a memoir
helping others
witnessing life's rich pageant of human foibles
getting humbled by life's slings and arrows
wising up
dreaming

letting love rule
I’m really good at
tuning in to people
the art of debate
providing strength and calm during a crisis
impressions of anyone I know
dancing to The Smith's "Cemetery Gates"
appreciating irony and absurdity
making my own chocolate
The first things people usually notice about me
people usually recognize aspects of themselves in others–i often hear of me: intensity, humor, sincerity, sensitivity, directness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
book of haikus–kerouac
siguer ros
schubert
leonard cohen
wild strawberries
nico
kundera
abstract expressionism
cultured vegetables
MGMT
minor white
radiohead
it's a wonderful life
psalms
lotus root
bowie
alina–arvo part
chet baker
herman hesse
eno
la strada
memories, dreams, reflections–jung
organic raw cream
mozart
brown bunny
raymond carver
the 400 blows
medicine
bukowski
t-rex
broadway danny rose
body ecology diet
lou reed
muse
The six things I could never do without
the sun
humor
erewhon market
eccentricity
kindness
the first clear sky after a storm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
myself and people close to me
the deep source from which we all do begin
astrology
femininity and the lovely mysteries thereof
what makes something beautiful
music
the arc of a person's life
why there is such a variety of living forms
On a typical Friday night I am
letting go
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i've only done it in my dreams so far, but i secretly believe one day i will walk on air.
You should message me if
you are willing to go deep and have some tools to navigate w/ me
are not afraid to be ravaged in love–
you catch a glimmer of my soul–
are feminine, compassionate, soulful, and somewhat fierce, independent, strong-minded, and vulnerable
a fellow traveler yearning to touch truth and beauty
have a feeling for nature,
an interest in natural health
solid values

ultimately, if something flutters within you
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