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roughhewthem

50 Los Angeles, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
a blue fire
soul searching sensualist
deeply rooted romantic
compassionate but tough teacher
haiku poet
smart ass
health kook/foodie
humble carrier of the weight
child at heart
more (quite a bit) to the picture than meets the eye
"diaphanous wings float above a summer hurricane"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
cultivating eudaimonia
appreciating the manifold gift of life
refining my self-expression
betting on the muse
doing yoga
improving my character
making money
writing a memoir
helping others
witnessing life's rich pageant of human foibles
getting humbled by life's slings and arrows
wising up

letting love rule
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
tuning in to people
the art of debate
providing strength and calm during a crisis
impressions of anyone I know
dancing to The Smith's "Cemetery Gates"
appreciating irony and absurdity
making my own chocolate
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
people usually recognize aspects of themselves in others–i often hear of me: intensity, humor, sincerity, sensitivity, directness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
book of haikus–kerouac
siguer ros
schubert
leonard cohen
wild strawberries
nico
kundera
abstract expressionism
cultured vegetables
MGMT
minor white
radiohead
it's a wonderful life
psalms
lotus root
alina–arvo part
chet baker
herman hesse
eno
la strada
memories, dreams, reflections–jung
organic raw cream
brown bunny
raymond carver
the 400 blows
bukowski
t-rex
broadway danny rose
body ecology diet
lou reed
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the sun
humor
erewhon market
eccentricity
kindness
the first clear sky after a storm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
myself and people close to me
the deep source from which we all do begin
astrology
femininity and the lovely mysteries thereof
what make something beautiful
music
the arc of a person's life
why there is such a variety of living forms
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
letting go
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i've only done it in my dreams so far, but i secretly believe one day i will walk on air.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are willing to go deep and have some tools to navigate w/ me
are not afraid to be ravaged in love–
you catch a glimmer of my soul–
are feminine, compassionate, soulful, and somewhat fierce, independent, strong-minded, and vulnerable
a fellow traveler yearning to touch truth and beauty
have a feeling for nature,
an interest in natural health
solid values

ultimately, if something flutters within you