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30 M Beijing, China

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–33
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Last Online
Jul 31
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from law school
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Relationship Type
English, German (Poorly), C++ (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a geeky guy who likes to be amazed by things. I'm constantly looking for ways to challenge my assumptions and new ways to look at things. I'm also constantly looking for the perfect steak, dosai and beer. Some time in college I started getting interested in art. Although I don't know much about it I do enjoy art and would love to learn more.

I love traveling. I've had the chance to live/work in three cities outside the US and each time I've found the experience to be gratifying. It's pretty amazing how much people are willing to help out if you seem open-minded.

I graduated from NYU law last year and I'm currently getting my LLM in Chinese law from Tsinghua University. I came to law school to save the world using international law and I'm hoping to find a job that will let me do just that. If I can find a way to mix in some math with that dream, all the better.
What I’m doing with my life
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I started my career as a software developer but decided to go to law school to become a human rights lawyer. Now I'm studying for the bar exam and figuring out what the next step in my career is.

Other than that, I'm just trying to narrow down my (current) passion(s) in life. There isn't much of a plan in place - I tend to prefer to see how things go.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening carefully to what other people say and responding constructively.
Seeing the positive side of things.
Math, logic, etc...
Quoting movies and TV shows.
Poking holes in arguments. This one annoys people sometimes though so I usually have to hold back.
I'm a half decent cook but I usually don't put too much effort when I cook for myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I assume that they notice that I wear glasses and I'm tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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It's impossible to make an even reasonably complete list but...

Books: 1984, Brave New World, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Stranger in a Strange Land, The Inscrutable Americans.

Movies: The Matrix, The Siege, 12 Angry Men (the old one), Demolition Man, Ip Man, Monty Python's Holy Grail, The Shawshenk Redemption, Hackers, Brick, Primer

Food: Dosai, Steak, Bagels, Coagulated Blood, Bacon wrapped anything

TV Shows: Doctor Who, How I Met Your Mother, They Big Bang Theory, Coupling, As Time Goes By, Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, Newsroom, The West Wing, Archer, Death Note, Fullmetal Alchemist, other anime...

Music: I'm not that picky. I usually just toss on Pandora and listen to 90's music alternative or hip hop. I also like top 40's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good books
good beer
diverse foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Law, politics, philosophy, the universe, food, the future, life lessons, movies, what to read next.

I love the fact that the world is so complicated. It keeps things fun.

I wonder if the fact that I am focusing on international law is giving me tunnel vision in thinking about international relations.

Is it really possible to govern hundreds of millions or billions of people in any reasonable way?

Which part of the world has the best food?

Am I underestimating the complexity of Zeno's Paradox? The idea of infinity is fascinating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with friends at a bar, movie, club or restaurant. Sometimes at a house party or just chilling at home and catching up on TV shows or reading a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can quote fairly significant portions of Monty Python's Holy Grail.
You should message me if
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You like long, sometimes geeky, debates and trying to figure out how to save the world while mildly inebriated.