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30 Beijing, China Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Today – 4:13pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
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Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, German (Poorly), C++ (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a geeky guy who likes to be amazed by things. I'm constantly looking for ways to challenge my assumptions and new ways to look at things. I'm also constantly looking for the perfect steak, dosai and beer. Some time in college I started getting interested in art. Although I don't know much about it I do enjoy art and would love to learn more.

I love traveling. I've had the chance to live/work in five cities and each time I've found the experience to be gratifying. It's pretty amazing how much people are willing to help out if you seem open-minded.

After getting my JD I came to Beijing to study Chinese law. Soon I'll be working in a Chinese law firm and pursuing a side project or two involving math, computers and law. I'm also going to work on my Chinese.

What I’m doing with my life
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Soon I'll be working in a Chinese law firm. On the side, I'm reviving my love of mathematics and artificial intelligence. In the future I'm hoping to put everything together into an elegant (or ugly) combination.

Other than that, I'm making new friends, meeting new people and seeing what's next. I have no plans to settle down yet but that doesn't mean I am planning not to settle down.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening carefully to what other people say and responding constructively.
Seeing the positive side of things.
Math, logic, etc...
Quoting movies and TV shows.
Poking holes in arguments. This one annoys people sometimes though so I usually have to hold back.
I'm a half decent cook but I usually don't put too much effort when I cook for myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I assume that they notice that I wear glasses and I'm tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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It's impossible to make an even reasonably complete list but...
(This list is a bit old. I'm not going to attempt to update it so you can use it as more of a general guide to the types of things I like).

Books: 1984, Brave New World, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Stranger in a Strange Land, The Inscrutable Americans.

Movies: The Matrix, The Siege, 12 Angry Men (the old one), Demolition Man, Ip Man, Monty Python's Holy Grail, The Shawshenk Redemption, Hackers, Brick, Primer

Food: Dosai, Steak, Bagels, Coagulated Blood, Bacon wrapped anything

TV Shows: Doctor Who, How I Met Your Mother, They Big Bang Theory, Coupling, As Time Goes By, Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, Newsroom, The West Wing, Archer, Death Note, Fullmetal Alchemist, other anime...

Music: I'm not that picky. I usually just toss on Pandora and listen to 90's music alternative or hip hop. I also like top 40's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good books
good beer
diverse foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Law, politics, philosophy, the universe, food, the future, life lessons, movies, what to read next.

I love the fact that the world is so complicated. It keeps things fun.

I wonder if the fact that I am focusing on international law is giving me tunnel vision in thinking about international relations.

Is it really possible to govern hundreds of millions or billions of people in any reasonable way?

Which part of the world has the best food?

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with friends at a bar, movie, club or restaurant. Sometimes at a house party or just chilling at home and catching up on TV shows or reading a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can quote fairly significant portions of Monty Python's Holy Grail. I recently re-watched this with my sister and my dad and about 20 minutes in my dad had to tell my sister and me to shut up.
You should message me if
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You like long, sometimes geeky, debates and trying to figure out how to save the world while mildly inebriated.