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45 / F / Bisexual / Single
- Last Online
- Today – 8:22pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- When drinking
- Other, and very serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Poorly)
*communication (being able to communicate your need/likes/dislikes without intimidating or offending your partner. you cant blame a lover for not living up to your expectations until you have at least tried to teach them to how meet your needs) ,
*being uninhibited (dont be hung up and insecure about your appearance, scent, taste, sounds, etc. it destroys passion on contact. practice good hygiene and body maintenance and trust that your lover is INTO you), &
*putting someones needs before your own (NOTHING IS A BIGGER INCENTIVE and TURN ON THAN A GIVER. when someone is generous in bed with me i am not only smitten with them i want to reciprocate X 3.)
no i am not on here just to hook up. i dont participate in NSA affairs. there are other sites for this but i am being direct on what i am good at.
photography, gardening, cooking, divination, naturopathy are all passions
"American Gods" Neil Gaiman
"The Master and Margarita" Mikhail Bulgakov
"The Road" Cormac Mc Carthy
"When Youre Engulfed in Flames" David Sedaris
"The Wind-up Bird Chronicle" Haruki Murakami
"Ubik" Philip K. Dick
"Post Office" Charles Bukowski
"The Fountainhead" Ayn Rand
"The Idiot" Fyodor Dostoyevsky
"The Stranger" Albert Camus
cinema: independent, foreign, and art house films.
"Fanny and Alexander"
"Harold and Maude"
"The Piano Teacher"
"Beauty and the Beast" 1946
"30 Days of Night"
"The Last Station"
"Pink Floyd: The Wall"
Adventure Time w/ Finn & Jake
Strangers with Candy
Star Trek (Voyager, Next Generation and original)
American Horror Story
Ren and Stimpy
Everybody Loves Raymond
Two and a Half Men
The Outer Limits
Dharma and Greg
So You Think You Can Dance
Gene Simmons, Family Jewels
cuisine: international cuisine. LOVE Indian and Thai. i enjoy cooking and do it everyday without fail, but eat healthier than most folks can tolerate.
music: indie/alternative, college radio, jazz (be-bop), blues, funk, retro r/b, soul, techno trance, world beats, goth, old skool punk, metal, and classic rock.
some top titles i adore:
"Ju Ju" Siouxsie and the Banshees
"Copper Blue" Sugar
"Heaven Up Here" Echo and the Bunnymen
"Black Dog" Led Zeppelin
"Strange Days" The Doors
"Tattoo You" Rolling Stones
"Seven Steps to Heaven" Miles Davis
"One Nation Under a Groove" Funkadelic
"English Settlement" XTC
"Lust for Life" Iggy Pop
"Goo" Sonic Youth
"Rain Dogs" Tom Waits
"Remain in the Light" Talking Heads
"10.000 Days" Tool
"Exodus" Bob Marley
"Toward the Within" Dead Can Dance
"Scary Monsters" David Bowie
"Treasure" Cocteau Twins
"It'll End in Tears" This Mortal Coil
"Taking Tiger Mountain" Brian Eno
"Catastrophe Ballet" Christian Death
"Hell Comes to Your House" hardcore compilation
art: i love German Expressionism and the Pre Raphaelistes. Egon Schiele is my favorite figurative painter
a delicious ale, Ghost Adventures, and the Dead Files courtesy of The Travel Channel.
i do go out more on Saturdays than Fridays and that would be CC haunts with friends.
- Guys and girls who like bi girls
- Ages 25–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
i do NOT want to hear from addicts (who appear to be a dime a dozen on here) whether its sex addiction, alcoholism, drugs, food, gambling. i have no problems with those in recovery, as i have 8 years sober but am not interested in fighting anyones demons but my own.
i have noticed over the years that a huge population of lonely and socially inept people gravitate to dating sites (especially those that dont cost anything) with no real purpose or motivation other than to fantasize. there is no sincere intention to ever actually meet anyone face to face and i find this very tedious and exhausting.
please do NOT message me if youre only looking for an imagined meeting with a woman. i am REAL and i want to meet someone who can call me, show up on time, and dedicate an hour or 2 to a "meet and greet" without looking at their cell phone the entire time or cancelling minutes before the date through a transparent text. my philopsophy is "shit or get off of the pot". either youre in and committed to finding interesting friends and lovers or youre NOT. figure it out before saying hello to me. THANKS! :-D
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