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39 Santa Fe, NM Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:27pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hair and beard length may very greatly.

Fun, loving, intelligent, affectionate, active, solid.

I love hiking and camping, cooking and baking, being active and fitness, and training Filipino martial arts and Muay Thai.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Relearning old school skills. Making real food from scratch, like your grandma' did.

Abandoning a competitive, consumptive culture in favor of happiness, cooperation and creating. Creating a life of self-sufficiency and sustainability. Maybe influencing a few people along the way.

Looking for people who want to help create better community. Looking for people I can learn from and better myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being present, thoughtful and competent.

Taking food to a different level. Making a rich experience of things. Being open-minded. Adventuring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Avid reader and music listener. While not a fan of possession and stuff, I do have a large library and music collection.

Urban Homesteading, The Abundant Community, The Great Turning, early American and Russian literature, non-fiction.

Cocorosie, Holy Golightly, Billy Childish are just a very small sampling of the music I love.

I love movies. I've got no interest in TV.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food.
The outdoors.
Great sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live life better and with more happiness. How to find like-minded people.

Food and social justice. Why people are so blinded by an unhealthy culture. What life will be like when this unsustainable culture falls apart. How to thrive now and continue then. Old school skills. Climbing mountains.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to get a bunch of friends together over food.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You read Ishmael or The Great Turning and got it. You think a matanza is cooler than going out to a bar. You actually make the time to spend with friends. You think there could be more to the human experience. I realize it's a long shot, but I'm not looking for just anyone. The people I want are a rare bunch and this is an attempt at networking and building an affinity group. I am very interested in connecting with people who are more like-minded, people looking for relationships of any sorts in which they can be present and participative. People who have kind hearts and are actionable. Just building a better community. If that sounds like something that would be additive for you, the invite is there. I'm looking for friends, but believe in being true to whatever dynamic develops.

You love intelligent conversation, preferably over coffee. You know and find value in great friendships and/or poly relationships. You think a competitive, consumer culture doesn't make any sense. You can challenge me and I can learn from you. You want to explore your sexuality.

My life is super abundant and full of great things, and little time. I'm looking for friends and lovers who are on the same path and want to cooperatively build something better. Relationships that are additive to a rich experience.