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  • Ages 35-49
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 29
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
My self-summary
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I am a protective caring man, but also strong and passionate; a short description, but it does not totally define me. I am a complete person with likes and dislikes, and things that don’t interest me. If you want to be cared for protected, and appreciated. A woman who wants to spoil me, and wants to be spoiled then read on. I think it is easier to have a happy life if you focus out, focus on the happiness of your partner, and share a life with a partner that does the same.

I like a quick wit, a big personality, and irreverent humor, a like a woman who feels free to talk about sex in mixed company, stuffy is not my thing. Raising eyebrows is fun.

I am very driven by aesthetics. The bottom line is I want a real person with intelligence depth of personality I offer the same.

I am an architect and I have a passion for what I do. I also have a passion for just looking and seeing what exists in the world, whether it is walking down the streets of New York, or Paris, or just a walk in the woods, I just love the beauty in the world. I like the theater, the ballet, but I have a local dive bar I go to, and I like to go out and dance with friends. I prefer story driven movies to action adventure, and I don't mind staying home and watching Netflix, Hockey, Archer or Family Guy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working at what I love, and planing for the future. Renovation my lake house. Learning French.

I may be living abroad soon. Things are a little in flux at the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching, making something from nothing, cooking, architecture and snappy retorts and at appreciating the gifts I receive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to get right to the point, I don't stay with small talk for longer than I have to before I like to talk about things that really matter, and that I try and dress well and look good.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: last 6 months: As I Lay Dying, Fifty Shades of Grey, In Search of Lost Time, In Cold Blood, Crime and Punishment, Kitchen Confidential.

Movies: I love stuff by, Kubrick, Kurosawa, Coppola, Godard, Truffaut, Bergman, David Lean, Felini, Kazan, Russ Myers, David Lynch, Coen Bros...

TV: I like to watch Movies, and comedy: Family Guy, Archer, South Park. Documentary like Frontline. I like Ice Hockey and Formula One. The series like, Mad Men, House of Cards, Breaking Bad, The Wire and more.

Food: I love food. I love to cook, my father lives in Paris and Southwest France. I go several times a year, that is probably my favorite place to cook because of the ingredients. I love to cook here too. I love Haute Cuisine, I love to go out to the finest restaurants, I also love sushi...but I also love getting my hands dirty at a crayfish boil, or BBQ, and a pitcher of beer. I rarely eat Beef or Pork.

...and some other stuff:
abfab, abstract expressionism, albert king, alice in chains, allen jones, amsterdam, animal rights, aphex twin, archer, architecture, assemblage 23, barack obama, b b king, belgian beer, bettie page, big hair, bill hicks, bill moyers, billie holiday, bob marley, boots, buddy guy, carnegie hall, cha no yu, charlie the unicorn, chocolate, christopher guest, clubwear, corsets, cosmology, david bowie, david lynch, east village, family guy, fdny, felini, ferrari f1 team, fernando alonso, fetish, film noir, formula one, france, frank zappa, franz kline, french and saunders, french inhales, front 242, frontline, gerry anderson, gourmet cooking, graphic design, helmut newton, heels, hockey, horse racing, ifc, independent films, industrial design, ischia, italy, james brown, japan, jayne mansfield, jean harlow, jennifer saunders, jfk assassination, jimi hendrix, john lee hooker, john lennon, john watters, kurosawa, kyoto, latex, leather, long nails, louis i kahn, mae west, marlene dietrich, metal, metallica, micro miniskirts, miles davis, motorhead, make-up, monet, mopar, mozart, muddy waters, muscle cars, napa valley, noam chomsky, ny rangers, pale skin, photo-realism, photography, pin-ups, portishead, primal scream, rammstein, robert motherwell, robert plant, rome, santana, secret government, sex, shiny black leggings, shibuya, sippie wallace, skiing, skin two, slayer, slipknot, sorayama, stanley kubrick, sushi, t-bone walker, t-rex, tadao ando, tattoos, the red hot chili peppers, the misfits, the ramones, the progressive, the simpsons, theater, tokyo, tom wesselman, tube amplifiers, vampirella, wine, wumpscut, 58-60 corvettes, 64&67 corvettes, 67-69 camaros, 70's 'cudas, ferrari 250 gt swb spyder california.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
More humor
and I kinda' like having a roof over my head.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try not to have too many typical Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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If you read my profile and are interested.

Don't be afraid to initiate contact, I may not have come across your profile.