Relationship wise, I'm the one who listens and asks questions. I'm finding that causes problems for some. If a person needs a sounding board for resolving a problem, they come to me. Unfortunately, this had led to relationships where all the other person wants to do is vent and not do anything to change to make sure that the problem isn't anymore. While I have a high tolerance for listening, I don't do well if all someone wants to do is "whine." Complaining about a problem won't change anything.
Now that the kids are grown, it's time to start seriously looking for someone to spend me time with. I am not looking for an FB, one nighters, or meaningless texting relationships. If you're not serious about looking for a relationship that will last, don't bother.