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29 Columbus, OH Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:00pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to Columbus for grad school last year. Fun life fact: it is really, really hard to meet people to date and meet new friends while you're in grad school. That is why I am here.

I'm sure a million profiles say this but I don't really think I'm easy to summarize. At least, not if I'm being honest with you. I will say I take some digging to get to know. If you want to pigeonhole me to decide whether it's worth your while to keep reading, you can probably peg me as the liberal artsy type. I identify as queer moreso than bisexual.

I'm a transgender guy. Some people are into that, some aren't. If you aren't, just let me know - no hard feelings.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in grad school working on a dual master's in social work and public health. Grad school with a part time job is busy. Yeah. I feel like those things are my life at this point. But I do my best to make time for the people in my life and for writing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
School. So good that a lot of times I forget what day it is.

I'm a good writer, I cook well, and I listen and empathize well. I'm passionate about the things I like.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes make a game out of making new people guess how old I am before I tell them. Usually they're off the mark by about ten years, on the low end. I think it's the chubby cheeks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like lots of books, and unfortunately I also own a ton and have to move them every time I switch apartments. I read a lot of nonfiction and literature too, and had a Russian lit kick for a while. I read a lot of fantasy as a kid and young adult and it's still very near and dear to my heart as a genre, but I don't find quality fantasy very often. If you are a reader and would like to talk about books (especially if you can recommend good ones to me!), please take me out for coffee and we will geek out together.

Generally as far as movies and TV go, I like New Things. I like watching these things with people and don't do it much on my own. I like Game of Thrones and Parks and Rec though.

I like indie rock and electronica. I promise I'm not a dick about it.

An ex once said of me that my favorite food varies depending on what I happen to be eating, which is true. But in general I like it to be spicy. I'm also pretty into craft beer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My tablet, hot sauce, things that allow me to be perceived as my actual gender, my cat (he's my buddy), books, and soap, because not having showers sounds horrific.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of my time preoccupied with social justice issues and deconstructing gender. I can talk your ears off about either of these things, and if you get me going, I probably will. I also tend to do a lot of self-reflection.

I think all of that makes me sound a bit deeper than I actually am, so rest assured I also spend a lot of time preoccupied with sex and whatever nerdy thing I happened to read that day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually out with a friend at a bar, unless I happen to be utterly exhausted from the week. Then I'm usually at home playing Guild Wars or League of Legends and/or watching my cat fling himself around the house.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I refuse to stick my hand down the disposal when stuff gets stuck down there. I will get tongs. Too many horror movies.
You should message me if
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If you like any of the things I have described above and want to get to know someone else who does. If you are cute, intelligent, talkative and assertive (read: a nerdy-in-a-cool-way feminist or social activist) I will consider these things a bonus.