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36 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Reappropriating as personal ad:
Reasonably spiffy, modestly self-aware boy seeks superlative girl for to make deliriously happy life with.

The life I'm living:
A job I like leaving for in the morning. An apartment that I like coming home to at night. Bits of travel. Excellent friends that keep me laughing. Activities which keep me occupied and enriched. Grateful.

All things equal though, I'd prefer to be sharing it with someone surpassingly wonderful.
What I’m doing with my life
At work:
Alternately designing creative software for an entertainment company and directing/writing/acting/teaching theatre.

At play:
I'm in motion. Absorbing music, dancing it out, traversing the city, listening more than talking, attempting to elevate the discourse, growing, and doing my level best to make good choices.
I’m really good at
Forgetting something I need whenever I leave my apartment, telling stories on stages, dogwhispering, picking the subway car nearest to my upcoming exit, noodling on the piano, making lists, swimming a half mile, throwing and catching a football.

The party game Celebrity. Don't know it? You should. Wanna learn?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Blindness, Crime & Punishment, Siddhartha, Killing Yourself to Live, 3 Cups of Tea (and unfortunately 3 cups of blindness), From Beirut to Jerusalem, On The Road, Oh the Places You'll Go, A Sense of Direction, Kavalier & Clay, Ragtime, Eating Animals, anything from the pen of Tom Friedman or Robert Kagan.

old favorites:
Things to do in Denver when you're Dead, Good Will Hunting, Saving Private Ryan, MP & the Holy Grail, Igby Goes Down, Spaceballs, Equus, Amadeus, The Third Man, Anchorman, In the Loop, Caddyshack, Annie Hall, Badlands, Two for the Road, Baraka

recent loves:
Midnight in Paris, Pina, Sugar Man, Once, Forks over Knives, The Trip, Drive, Hanna, Get him to the Greek, Gatekeepers, Jiro

Homeland, Newsroom, Wire, Deadwood, West Wing, Family Guy, Slings & Arrows, Breaking Bad, Louie, Always Sunny, Sports Night, 30 Rock

Mumford and Sons, Paul Simon, Miles Davis, Van Morrison, any recording of Mozart's 20th piano, Rodrigo y Gabriela, Billy Joel, Ahmad Jamal, Fleet Foxes, Radiohead, Balkan Beat Box, Reggie Watts, Bonobo, Buckley, Girl Talk, Sufjan, Beirut, Annette Hanshaw

SO much good food in this world. Though while spice makes me hiccup, I'm averse to letting that moderate my palette. Damn the diaphragmic torpedoes.
The six things I could never do without
My secret service detail - you won't see them, they're discreet
The combo to the safe with all my top six lists
Honest to god genuine human contact
Rule of law
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When you find out I've been online dating, will you judge?

Delilah and Harley, my irresponsibly cute nieces. The next grand travel adventure. Which play/musical I'm going to work on next. Whether our sclerotic political system is fixable. When to finally pull the trigger and buy a bike. Jazz piano lessons. Acquiring a 4th koosh ball to learn 4 ball juggling. It's the future goddamnit, where's my flying car?!

Women of OKC...the low bar for NYC men on this site appears to have something to do with the inability to differentiate and correctly deploy your/you're/yore/ur. If so, 1) The standard for men in this city is alarmingly low. 2) I'm sorry on behalf my gender.
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing a play or on the elusive, eternal quest for the best spot in NY to be dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wear my Double Dare t-shirt maybe more than a 36 year old should.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
I wouldn't presume to know who or what could surprise, dazzle and excite me. In fairness, I have some clues as to what it might be, but there are far more possibilities out there than I can imagine. Kind, funny and loves to dance are a good start, though.

Which is all to say, if your a fan of what ewe read and if yore in fact awesome, please introduce you'reself.