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35 Raleigh, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 19
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Laid-back, intelligent, and possessing a wicked sense of humor... it's hard to write something that doesn't sound like a cliche.

About me:

I was born and raised in Louisiana although I've repeatedly been told that I don't have the accent. I don't miss the politics or the roads, but I do miss the food.

I've worked and lived in several places but have been in the Raleigh-Durham area for 8 years. I came for work but discovered that it's cultured, educated, and still the South. That's hard to beat so I've put down roots.

I am a huge history buff -- especially ancient and medieval Western history. I also love to travel. Combine the two, and you'll find me visiting monuments and historical sites in addition to the usual tourist spots.

I am an INTJ, or what Keirsey calls the "Mastermind."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
New Years Resolutions: work less, travel more, and meet more people so here I am!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture
Recounting the plots of TV episodes
Critical thinking
Laughing and getting other people to laugh once I get warmed up
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: In the mind candy category, recent favorites are The Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher, the His Dark Materials series by Philip Pullman, and The Sandman by Neil Gaiman. In the serious category "God is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything" by Christopher Hitchens and "The God Delusion" by Richard Dawkins.

Movies: What Dreams May Come, Forrest Gump, The Truman Show, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, South Park: The Movie, American Beauty, Jurassic Park

TV Shows: South Park, Family Guy, Arrested Development, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, anything Law & Order, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, and the reimagined Battlestar Galactica

Music: Most pop, some country

Food: Indian, Mexican, sushi, pubs, red wine over white, Guinness and 1554 (New Belgium)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Leaving aside food, water, wallet, and shelter...

Internet -- speaks for itself
iPad -- with all my e-Books and an active New York Times subscription
iPhone -- camera, weather, phone, and messaging all in one
My automobile (I hate relying on someone else for transportation)
Easy access to a restaurant for when I am too lazy to fix something
Clean clothes and a shower on a daily basis
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out on the town or curled up on the couch at home and watching a movie or reading a book
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I time myself with a watch when brushing my teeth and rinsing with mouthwash.

You have to ask me in person about the OKCupid questions I do not answer publicly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find humor everywhere.
You like to travel and try new things.
You can solve Sudoku and have an opinion on Star Trek vs Star Wars.
You know what Handel's Messiah is and can appreciate how awesome it was to hear it in the National Cathedral.
You believe in evolution, global climate change, and gun control.
You have a MacBook, iMac, iPhone, iPad, Apple TV, or all of the above.
You are equally at ease discussing: South Park, Family Guy, or the Colbert Report; the histories of religion, philosophy, or American politics; and some of the latest breakthroughs in technology and medicine.