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40 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Originally from Austin I have lived in NYC for 10 years and love it! Before that Texas, Mexico, California, Georgia and Spain (a country I am more than slightly obsessed with...and would love to live in one day).

Me...positive, educated, driven, creative, active, funny, high energy, compassionate, successful, athletic, curious, bright, maybe not in that order...

I have an amazing career and run a small Indie music label on the side.

I have traveled all over the World...up to 54 countries and counting...would love to see every one before it is all said and done...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
On an every day basis I slave it out to Corporate America in finance...

Also, play in a band (guitar and vocals), travel the World, and lately... redoing a townhouse, running a music label...

On the more active side.. riding bikes early morning through the deep burroughs, learning to surf again (definitely not like a bike you do forget!), yoga, training for Marathon, ran ING NYC last year - (brutal, but surreal)...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing horrible profiles
remembering obscure facts
navigating without a map...(no I am not too proud to ask for directions!)
playing guitar - "Stairway" anyone?
forgetting peoples names 1 second after I meet them, but never a face.
always seeming to get behind tourists on the sidewalk three/four wide...move it Iowa!
making mix tapes...or cds...or is that just ipod shuffle now?
skateboarding in the wee hours through NYC
remembering everything I need at the grocery store the moment I get home...
over ordering at restaurants
snowboarding naked...well I did that once...I thought it went pretty well all things considered
walking in sync with all street lights as they turn green
discovering new bands
brewing my own beer
sleeping until noon
steeping life in sarcasm
finding new restaurants
reading upsidedown
procrastinating...I'll finish the rest later
MENSA challenges...two trains leave NYC one with an Artistic Dreamer and one with a Athletic Finance dork...what time do they arrive back...and where?
staying out until 5 AM
finding rooftop parties
planning trips
making Mac n Cheese and Fried Chicken from scratch
rolling my own sushi
being an amazing friend, brother, son
finding the good in everything
running up a bar tab quickly
not forgetting how to dream
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, height, energy, intellect...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music is a huge part of my life! I go to multiple shows a week...I think my friends feel I maintain a somewhat unhealthy obsession with music, which often dictates where and when I the last year I have hit Coachella, Austin City Limits, and Lollapalooza...Ibiza Rocks anyone?

Favorite music changes daily, but as long as it is good...I am in!

Prefer Indie, Classic Rock, Electronica, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Punk, Dance, Rock, etc...I have too many ipods and constantly shuffle and reload them randomly...always trying to put something new on them.

Today I'm feeling:
New Arcade Fire,
New Daft Punk,
Portugal, the Man,
Janis Joplin,
Smith Westerns,
Surfer Blood,
Public Enemy,
Local Natives,
Zeppelin (always),
Passion Pit,
Nouvelle Vague,
Johnny Cash,
LCD Soundsystem,
Seu George,
The XX,
40's Big Band Classics
The National,
Miike Snow,
Billie Holliday,
Jane's Addiction,
Robert Johnson,
Little Richard,
Sleigh Bells,
Arcade Fire,
Grizzley Bear,
Beach House,
Black Keys,
The Smiths,
Wild Beasts,
Nina Simone,
Fleet Foxes,
Of Montreal,
Edith Piaf,
Joy Division,
Little Dragon,
James Blake,
Tallest Man on Earth,
Real Estate...

TV...I don't really watch a lot, but DVR is my best friend
Mad Men
Game of Thrones
Breaking Bad
30 Rock
Pawn Stars
It's Always Sunny in Philly
Antiques Roadshow
The Big Bang Theory

I love to cook, but eat out almost every night.
I will eat any style, but partial to Spanish, Mexican, Sushi, and any good brunch.

On the dining out side lately really loving:
Five Leaves
St. Anslem
Waverly Inn
Soho House (roof is sweet to eat...on)
Queen of Sheba
The Dutch
Abe and Aurthurs
Casa Mono
Fatty Crab
Sushi Yasuda
Friend of a Farmer
Mermaid Inn
Spotted Pig
La Superior
Beauty and Essex
Marlow and Son
Union Square Cafe
La Esquina
ABC Kitchen
Hecho en Dumbo


All Tarantino
All Wes Anderson
All Hitchcock
All Kubrick
Most Woody Allen
Most Scorsese
Most Coppola
All Cohen
All Bergaman
Most John Houston
All John Huhges
All Christopher Nolan…
With specific soft spots for:
All James Bond,
All Indiana Jones,
The Matrix,
Dark Knight,
Batman (all of them rock even Michael Keaton!...well maybe forget that one with Chris O'Donnell),
Animal House,
Old School,
Pulp Fiction,
Blade Runner,
Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid,
Ben Hur,
Taxi Driver,
Star Wars,
Usual Suspects,
Princess Bride,
Seven Samurai,
V for Vendetta,
The Bourne Series,
Old Boy,
Lawrence of Arabia,
Oceans 11,
Fast Times at Ridgemont High,
Wedding Singer,
Anchorman Stepbrothers,
Big Daddy,
Wedding Crashers,
Boondocks Saints,
Harry Potter…yes I love them all, quidditch anyone?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passports/Travel (I have two Passports Australian and US...working on Swiss - Grandparents were from there)
New Information
Good Eats/Good Drink - Spanish Wines and Kettle One!
New Adventures

Does it only count as six if I keep them in a line?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is the grass always greener on the and how amazing it is to interview digitally literally thousands of people just to find the one...does it make us all picky unrealistic snobs?

Lately I have thought about this a lot though...

5 years ago I was walking across the Galata Bridge in Istanbul, Turkey. I ran across a very strangely dressed old Englishman selling flowers from the back of his bike at the center of the bridge. The man insisted I buy a flower and listen to some of his stories, which I obliged.

As we spoke he told me fantastical tales of riding his bike through Asia, India, Europe, and Africa for 30 years, and of all the wonderful people and crazy characters he encountered. I was totally convinced most of them were complete lies until he spoke of meeting his wife...
He said he was working on a shrimping boat in the Indian Ocean. One day a beautiful German girl hitched a ride to an island off the main island of Indonesia. She spoke almost no English and was dirty from months of travel, but he fell “instantaneously in love with her". A girl, who although he had just met and with whom he could barely communicate with, "immediately became the most interesting and amazing person he had ever met". This, from a 25 year old Londoner biking across the World and currently working on a shrimp boat off of Indonesia. He teared-up describing her... her passion and insatiable lust for life changed him “in a moment…forever”. He clearly loved her and she had obviously died recently, although he didn’t say that specifically.

He didn't say much after he spoke of her and just refelcted for a moment. So, I thought we were done and started to walk away when he threw out his parting words "Life is short, fall in love, and surround yourself with interesting amazing people. And, remember...a person with no interests is a person of no interest, don't waste your time or your life".

I really couldn't have said it better myself.

So, I clocked him over the head and made off with his bike, flowers, and anything I could get from his pockets. Haha! Kidding!

I was actually very happy I met that man. As I thought about it days, weeks, months, now years after - he gave me more than he intended to, or maybe exactly what he intended to...
Although, his stories were great I thought more about his wife and the impact she had on him.
I am not exactly sure what I am looking for from this site - my life is great and I am beyond happy...but it would be cool to find someone that 40 years later we feel compelled to tell a complete stranger all about on a bridge in the middle of nowhere.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am on okcupid and none of my friends will ever hear that from me...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a bright, confident, driven, artistic, laid back (with some type A), kindred spirit, people/music lover who is succesful in whatever you love/do...and can keep up!