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rubylaser

49 / M / straight / Single

Adelaide, Australia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am alive, innocent, and on-beam.

My Self-Summary

I am, I prefer to think, a writer, with my head in the clouds, but my feet on the ground.

I have an eclectic outlook, garnered from a deep investigation over the years of the different philosophies and religions in the world. In that respect, I have developed my own religious philosophy, as informed by an aesthetic, feminist, and tantric consciousness.

I am driven to know things, which invariably has led me to an appreciation of the diversity of the nature of human beings and their conceptions of reality.

I am honest, intelligent, kind, and trustworthy. I have a dry sense of humour. I am a good listener, and quietly attentive.

What I’m doing with my life

Working, unenthusiastically, but my job does allow me time to write.

I’m really good at

Counting the ways to admire the sky; appreciating the beauty of the world: and it is beautiful, even in the face of habitat destruction by a rampant humanity.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't think it would be my loquaciousness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a treatise on cosmic fire, by alice a. bailey
god and the goddesses, by barbara newman
women of ideas, by dale spender

a crystal skull in peru, by cloaks
essence/universe, by laraaji
trailer park, by beth orton

figs
mangoes
raspberries

The six things I could never do without

Flowers : Knowledge : Meditation : Music : Power : The sun

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Finding a person who is a great conversationalist.

On a typical Friday night I am

Dreaming, writing poetry....

If you would appreciate beauty, then you would be mine. For what is beauty, but the sister of love?

It is the sunflower of your heart
the peach of your flesh

the blossom of your eyes
the chocolate of your lips

the vanilla of your hair
the cream of your smile

the saffron of your intelligence
the honey of your words

It is all the lusciousness of your soul.

This is love and beauty, which is your gift to me.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

There is no privacy on the internet.

You should message me if

If you want to enter another world.