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29 Sacramento, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:55am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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Let's get the cliches out of the way - I don't like talking about myself but I will do it anyway. I am smart, compassionate, independent, focused, and laid-back. I could probably throw out a few dozen other adjectives that have been used to describe me by one person or another but I'm sure it's things you've read a hundred times over. What you probably don't read often is that I am a therapist, with my doctorate in psychology. I love my job and can't imagine doing anything else. With that said, it is mentally and emotionally draining at times. So when I'm not working, I like to have fun and do things like hanging out with my friends or family, catch a movie, play mini golf, pool, bowling, watching a 49er game, or sometimes to hop in the car and drive around. I am a huge football fan, if you aren't a fan of the game than you can probably stop reading now.
I'm looking for a mature guy who has his life together and at least an idea about where he wants his life to go. I am a strong woman who is looking for a strong man. Simply put, I want an equal. I want someone who can and will stand up for himself without being a jerk or domineering. Someone who is confident and independent is important to me, I do not want man who is desperate or needy. I'm not interested in guys who smoke, have ex-wives, or have kids. There is nothing wrong with most of those things, just hold no interest for me at this point in my life. Not crazy about tattoos either.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting use to not being a student anymore and enjoying my career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, psychology, discussing the 49ers, just being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Steve Alten's Meg series, Twilight (everyone needs an escape once in a while), and some Stephen King.

Music - R&B, Pop, Rap, mainly Top 40. Artists like Boyz II Men, Mariah Carey, Neyo, Britney Spears

Movies - Mr & Mrs Smith, Twilight, Transformers, Hellboy 1 &2, Da Vinci Code, Avengers. Just about anything except some Horror and stupid comedies.

Food - Pasta, steak, pizza, cheeseburgers, shrimp, willing to try just about anything as long as it's not too spicy.

TV - Bones, Supernatural, True Blood, Covert Affairs, Grey's Anatomy, Vampire Diaries, and Walking Dead to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPhone, my laptop, my mom, my friends, Coke, and last but not least the 49ers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My career and football season.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either studying, trying to relax by just kicking back, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm celibate.
You should message me if
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If you are guy who can handle an opinionated, independent, busy woman who also expects a man to be a man. I know I don't have a lot of time on my hands right now but I am willing to do my best to make time for that special guy. If you think you'd like to get to know more about me please message me.
Please don't message me asking me to be your therapist, I'm looking for a relationship not a client.