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rudden4

41 Washington, DC Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am very curious and love cheese, wine, big smiles with all your gums showing, and exploring new cultural activities. I'm not religious. So you could believe in a bunch of infighting Gods walking around in their Armani togas...as long as we have great conversations, I'm thrilled.

I love art and cooking and am probably most engaged by these kinds of sensory experiences. At the same time I am pretty driven professionally and seem to like hybrid personality traits in others.

Professionally, I went back to (law) school in 2004 and am currently serving as a civil rights adjudicator (i.e., low level Admin. Judge) with the USDA.

As for personal goals, that is more difficult. I love humor, and being with someone who has an intense free-floating curiosity, but mostly I want someone who prompts me to think about things in a new way.

I am playful, excessively verbal, and curious
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a civil rights attorney practicing in DC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
elementary backstroke, heady dialogue.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
smile that looks like I slept with a coat hanger in my mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My antonia, Toni Morrison, Top Chef, Joe Strummer, Gore vidal, cynthia Ozick, cheese, sinead O'connor, arrested development, The Wire, Louise Eldrich...those are some of the mainstays.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cheese, wine, bread, good live music or theater, talk-a-thons with good friends, empathy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
rhetoric and how words are used to solicit responses. This is always interesting to me.

Empathy--you know, imagining what it is like to be someone other than myself...Not because I want to be someone else but because that is the only way I seem to understand the world (or at least the little corner of it that I inhabit).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
exploring the emetic joie de vivre of DC... wine with a small group of good friends, or maybe just relaxing on the couch....it really depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really like Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Love and appreciate irony and humor
Find food adventures exciting
You feel like it--trust your feelings!

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