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35 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 22, 2013
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a software engineer who's into board games and bridge. I'm a bit of a geek. I love to travel.

I am shyly gregarious, sardonic, and laid back.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a software engineer at Google. I play bridge competetively.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Proofreading. Coding. Wasting time. Filling in the details of theoretical statistical models of artificial intelligence (this skill is less useful than you might think).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Basically the beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(a) I'll list instead favorite authors: Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Neal Stephenson (the king of digression), William Gibson, Charles Stross, Harper Lee, Simon Singh, Ursula K. LeGuin, Gene Wolfe.

(b) Princess Bride, High Fidelity, Almost Famous, Raiders of the Lost Ark.

(c) The Wire, Arrested Development, Firefly, Doctor Who, Archer.

(d) Jonathan Coulton, The Postal Service, Daft Punk, MC Frontalot, The Glitch Mob, They Might Be Giants.

(e) Ciabatta with some olive oil, Pad Thai, this chicken my mom bakes with cornflake crumbs, really juicy nectarines, raw fish of several varieties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet. Sarcasm. T-shirts? I don't know, I don't have a huge attachment to many things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bridge, I guess. My mind wanders a lot, and since I've left grad school I don't spend too much time thinking about any one thing in particular.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating/drinking/watching tivo/playing games/etc with a small group of close friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a boxers man. Not terribly private, but there you go.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're equally comfortable talking about politics, geeky things (in general or specific, your choice), or the seinfeldian nothing. Tell me something you're really into right now!