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ruds

34 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Sep 22, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a software engineer who's into board games and bridge. I'm a bit of a geek. I love to travel.

I am shyly gregarious, sardonic, and laid back.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a software engineer at Google. I play bridge competetively.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Proofreading. Coding. Wasting time. Filling in the details of theoretical statistical models of artificial intelligence (this skill is less useful than you might think).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Basically the beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(a) I'll list instead favorite authors: Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Neal Stephenson (the king of digression), William Gibson, Charles Stross, Harper Lee, Simon Singh, Ursula K. LeGuin, Gene Wolfe.

(b) Princess Bride, High Fidelity, Almost Famous, Raiders of the Lost Ark.

(c) The Wire, Arrested Development, Firefly, Doctor Who, Archer.

(d) Jonathan Coulton, The Postal Service, Daft Punk, MC Frontalot, The Glitch Mob, They Might Be Giants.

(e) Ciabatta with some olive oil, Pad Thai, this chicken my mom bakes with cornflake crumbs, really juicy nectarines, raw fish of several varieties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet. Sarcasm. T-shirts? I don't know, I don't have a huge attachment to many things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bridge, I guess. My mind wanders a lot, and since I've left grad school I don't spend too much time thinking about any one thing in particular.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating/drinking/watching tivo/playing games/etc with a small group of close friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a boxers man. Not terribly private, but there you go.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're equally comfortable talking about politics, geeky things (in general or specific, your choice), or the seinfeldian nothing. Tell me something you're really into right now!