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rufus74

39 M Colonial Beach, VA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I'm Chris. I've been out of the dating game for awhile, and thought I'd give it another shot to find the right one. Dating sure is tough! Anyway, I like reading, watching movies, going to museums/ art galleries, learning new things, or anything that sounds fun. I'm up for pretty much anything! Really, I am, lol. I recently gave up drinking, though, so I don't do bars anymore. That's fine if you do, but it's not for me anymore. Basically, I'm looking for a woman who is interested in the same sort of thing, so if you're interested, feel free to contact me. Good luck!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
O.k., so I've been working in retail for far to long, but I am looking to get out of it by finishing up school, so bear with me here, please!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile, or laugh! I try to make people feel good.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends, but I would hope my smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a lot of favorites--too many to list. Also, greatly depends on my mood. I tend to read more cerebral kind of stuff, like philosophy, history, literature, etc. As far as movies, I pretty much like drama, comedy (as long as it's not too low brow), horror, but for the love of God--no musicals! Music wise, I like 80's/90's alternative, and metal, with a bit of classical thrown in for good measure :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You can't take it with you :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Well, like a lot of people, I think about my life a lot--what I'm doing, where I'm going, regrets, hopes, my love life (or lack thereof), day-to-day problems that come up, etc. I try not to think about myself, or my problems too much, though. I'm just one small fish in a giant ocean. I also think a lot about whatever it is that I'm reading about at the time, or some movie I saw. It's always different :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not working, usually at home relaxing. Sometimes I go out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not telling :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you dare! Just kidding! As I mentioned, if I seem like the kind of guy for you :)