I'm a personal trainer and am working toward becoming an amateur bodybuilder. I like to read books, write, work out at the gym and occassionally do other stuff. 2011/2012 brought on some serious changes in my lifestyle and outlook, because I'm Becoming an Adult (I assume...I lost the maturity handbook a few years ago and haven't found a replacement yet). I finally tackled my alcoholism and realised that all the time I used to spend drunk could be spent in the gym instead, so that's where I'm at now.
I'm a nice guy who has found a long-term relationship. He's an awesome, sweet guy who is weird, which is great for me. We met in June, 2008, right here on OKCupid. I'm not looking for romance here anymore, but I would like to find a "bromance" with someone who likes to work out and maybe just chill once in a while.
I'm fairly shy and quiet when you first meet me. I used to solve this problem with beer, but realized that that caused a bunch of other problems that weren't so easy to solve, so I've been sober since October 2011. I don't think it's made me boring.
I used to play a lot of rugby, and one day I may go back to it. I feel the pull every spring. Maybe this year will be the year....