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57 Lewiston, ME Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 45–62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 21
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I cultivate kindness, consistency, predictability and satori. I don't break the law, hurt animals or vote Republican. ENFJ DGLD

In my adult life I have lived in Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, New York, California, France, and Spain. I've also traveled a bit though I prefer to settle down somewhere and get to know how things work. I've never been in the military and never earned more than the median wage. I love to talk with people who have unconventional ideas and sometimes wish that my body could still tolerate alcohol so that I could hang around in bars.

I suppose one of my biggest flaws for a lot of women is my indifference to food. I eat all the time, mostly healthy food, try everything, never leave a scrap on my plate, and I can cook with or without a recipe, but there are so many other things I'd rather be doing. When the New Yorker does a food issue, I often read the articles -- I mean it's better than the fashion issue -- but I don't understand why people make such a big deal out of food. If you want to go to a farmers market, fine I'll take you and buy something from every stall, but if you want "fine dining" I suggest you need a holiday in Cambodia.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a children's librarian, canvassing for the Democrats, walking the dog, flirting, reading.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at seeing nonintuitive truths about the world, talking with people who are very different from me, making women laugh, and enjoying the world without buying stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm tall and remarkably handsome with a sort of Kennedyesque charm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Richard Russo, Garth Nix, Sam Lipsyte, Jared Diamond, Paul Krugman, Daniel Kahneman, Thomas Piketty.
Movies: Coen brothers, Wes Anderson, action, humor, Midnight in Paris, Lincoln (Spielberg finally made a good movie!), Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
TV: Madmen, Archer, Sherlock, Big Bang Theory.
Music: simple stuff that makes you feel like dancing.
Food: like everything but can't eat refined sugar. I have never in my adult life refused to try some new dish. I usually eat only one meal per day and forage the rest.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The usual: compassion, moderation, humility.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I was raised by TV and taught romance by James T Kirk who showed me that all you have to do is wander around until you find the alien girl in go go boots. With expert mentoring like that, how come I'm single?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
By Friday, I am ready for "the promise of an early bed." Saturday morning is funtime for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was voted runner up for"Best Lover in the Tri-state Area" two consecutive years by the Davenport Women's Health Cooperative back in the 80s.
You should message me if
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You're a kind, physically affectionate, intellectual (or at least pseudo) woman about my age, happy and optimistic. You seek a close relationship of mutual growth.