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44 M Tyler, TX

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:37pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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For starters, I am NOT on here looking to "get laid" or anything of the sort. I know that seems to be a big issue that women have to put up with on here and I'm sorry about that. We aren't all that way. At least I, for one, am not. I'm just looking for someone who lives reasonably close by in order to get to know more with hopes of a more serious relationship. I'm not totally opposed to meeting someone an hour or two away, but for that to be rational, we'd both REALLY have to hit it off and know it quite early. And honestly, I don't think the women swoon over me enough and I don't attract women that I'd swoon over enough to have anything like that lead into anything. Hoping to meet a beautiful woman that lives an hour or so away that you've never met is exciting at first, but then the logistics of it kicks in… and well… it doesn't turn out to be such a brilliant an idea when someone finds out they aren't attracted after all.

Anyway, I'm a decent, honest, Christian man and I truly want to be with someone for the right reasons. I tend to have quite a political and religious thinking mind, so forgive me in advance. ;-) I'm very laid back and easy going… but I am also very talkative and comfortable to be around so if we were to meet, any nervousness you might have had would be gone in about 5 minutes or less. Oh… and I have no dark, dirty secrets or skeletons in my closet. I've walked the straight and narrow my whole life and I don't have any of those "Well, I was young and stupid" stories. lol… Those "Well, I was young and stupid" stories always tend to scare me. And if you are looking for someone that acts like they are in their 20's, then I'm not the profile you'd be interested in. And I'm not looking for someone in their 40's who pretends they are in their 20's. And to parents with children, at some point in life, it's time to grow up and be an adult and even tune in to current affairs from time to time if you care to be informed about what your children's future is going to be like. It's very much worth paying attention to what future we will leave behind for them. Anyway, if any of this makes sense to you, please message me!

Oh… and I am totally terrified to respond to women that post only one picture that's either blurry, not complete, or just in general, they reveal very little about what they TRULY look like via pictures. It's fairly easy to assume that what they don't reveal in their profile with pictures, they are attempting to hide or divert us away from, and that can really prevent someone from wanting to respond at all.

As far as meeting goes, I'd meet any woman immediately, if not sooner, who lives reasonably close, who I thought was cute, who was within a reasonable age range, and who I didn't see any red flags with as far as her profile is concerned. Just a quick visit at most any public place would do. Even just for a 30 minute chat. Then, if there was a mutual interest and both thought it would be great to see each other again, we'd find that out right away after we got home and messaged each other… or not. And not to worry, because if I meet you and I don't hear back from you via a message when I get home, I don't do the chasing routine. I'd just mark up our visit as a great opportunity taken to meet someone new! Even if you are hesitant to meet me because you aren't sure you'd be interested, that's fine! Don't worry because it won't pop my bubble or devastate me if you found you weren't. It's nobody's fault if their heart isn't in it and God knows, I understand that. I've been in that position too, and you really cannot know how you may feel about someone until you actually meet them in person. As long as we both understood that, then let's meet and give it a try! Why not?