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45 Tyler, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 4:33pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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Look, I'm not on here seeking one night stands or any provocative picture swapping or provocative emails/texting or anything, so please, let's just get that out of the way. I don't do that. I never have. I understand many women on here have to put up with that sort of stupidity from the guys, so for that, I'm sorry. Just don't mark me into that category. Besides, would I start my profile off stating all this if I was a typical woman chaser? Of course not… because if I was, my hand would immediately be called on it at the first sign of any of that.

Anyway, I'm a decent guy and would love a quick meet and greet simply over coffee with a woman where we both may possibly have found some interest in each other. And afterwards… if you choose not to write me again, then no biggie. It's no one's fault. That's how I see it. I see it more like being grateful I had the 30 minute opportunity to meet someone new. If we seem to hit it off, then messages would obviously follow after we got to our homes. It would all solve itself after that. Anyway, write if you can afford a quick 30 minute meeting sometime with me! It is something I'm likely to ask or likely to accept an invitation to eventually, if you lived close by and we seem to hit it off. If not… happy hunting on here! I hope you find someone special!

OH! For those that live a greater distance away… I'm not necessarily opposed to meeting someone an hour or two away, but for that to be a rational meeting, we'd both REALLY have to find a LOT of interest in the other, and that's pretty hard to figure out before we've even met. Also, I have a 10 year old daughter who lives in this area that I am extremely close to. Just saying that if I had any future with a woman off of here, I could never move far away from my daughter. Any good dad would never do that. Just sayin'… Anyway, I hope to hear from you! :-)

For what I'm about to say, the ones who this might apply to would probably not read this far down in my profile anyway, but I'll go ahead and say it. These singles site can certainly destroy a man on the inside and I must admit, it has shaken me up a bit. It seems that women, if they write or reply at all, are only half-heartedly interested in the first place or maybe they never were. It just confuses me as to why a woman would take the time to message someone or reply back several times without any intent to meet the guy whatsoever.

There's nothing wrong with not finding any interest and there's no harm in feeling you may not be attracted physically, so if you don't think you would be… don't write the guy or respond to him at all. I understand trying to make sure the guy is not a nut case, but please, if you aren't necessarily interested in actually meeting someone… or getting to know him and meeting him, again, don't respond or write the guy in the first place. That would do all of us a huge favor.

And if the most interesting thing you have to say in reply after a paragraph written to you is "lol…" or "that's so true", then why bother wasting the time to send that? Don't expect much in reply after a response like that. Feeling obligated to reply to everyone out of being courteous is not the answer. People should be grown up about this and it really does no one any favors. Sometimes, I think there are planted message writers on these just to keep people preoccupied with the illusion that someone might be interested. I know… that is far fetched, but I don't know what other logical explanation there could be. Heck, I'd meet someone that night for simply 30 minutes over coffee if I had a few "get to know you" messages with them earlier that same day. Any public place would do. I just don't understand why this is so extraneous and tedious. It need not be.

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