41 Missoula, MT
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My self-summary
I've spent a long time as an army of one. it's been a long road and I'm a vary passionate person but it's well tempered I laugh at everything or atleast try. I will probably look at you like it's the first time I have ever met enything like you. it's my motives apparatus. it might feel odd at first but I want to know you for what you are not what I assume you are. don't worry I'm a fast learner but I probably won't kiss you first. I do it with everything from cars cats bugs and brooks. I like to explore. more recently I've found that I'm relationship oriented and that in the end it doesn't mean much if you can't share it.
What I’m doing with my life
i have a BA in computer science and physics. My intention was to go into automation, but after three months in the basement, doing IT, I decided to become a pilot. I have worked about six years as a flight instructor then gave it up for love. i have learned that farming is hard. But someday I'd like to own a small farm, more for the idea of sustainability and...(insert word that means comprehension and owning ones actions) then profit. like, I feel that if you eat meat you should hunt, it is part of the same thing. more recently I worked as a welder. then quit to start my own business but that didn't fly so I spent the summer flying airplanes and building a deck. This winter I'm working with ski patrol. not sure what's next. I might fly this summer might weld. I'd like to have someone teach me more about backpacking. Other then that I'll be working on the house.
I’m really good at
keeping things real.
The first things people usually notice about me
I Shamelessly Flirt all the time. I laugh at my own jokes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have documented proof that I'm one of the worst spellers in the world. reading Isn't fun. which is probably for the best it keeps me connected with the rest of my senses. but it makes on line dating dubious at best. I love music but I'm not a fan of country or gangster rap. I don't have a tv and I don't miss it much.
The six things I could never do without
plumbing. now don't get me wrong I like to camp too but after the first night I start thinking of how I could make some sort of running hot water happen. that and how to make primitive tools and start fires is what makes camping fun.

skin. not only would we be a mess without it but I love skin. soft smooth healthy skin over softly defined curves. I'm a bit of a hairy dude so the first think you will grab will most likely be covered with hair and hard. but lady's are an absolutely delightful to touch partly because of skin.

intimacy. the idea of truly knowing someone or something. A gardner must be intimate the his garden.

Intimately loving. The idea of being intimate with someone or something and loving it.

Physically interacting with people. Except not a fight. Nobody got time for that.

feedback. no really, go make out with a bag of rice or try and debate with a brick. ask a tree for dating advice. look to a chair for a loving embrace. send resumes...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The human condition. We are highly complex social monkeys. trying to make a utopia.... and why aren't we all trying to make a utopia for people? I think it can be shown that are current society isn't doing it.

sustainable living. i have learned that farming is hard and vary vary necessary.

automation. automation is the key to doing a lot of work without doing a lot of work.... but it takes a lot of work to get the automation. someday I will be able to be creative and lazy at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
same think I do every night. find some good food. hang out with loved ones. maybe a walk and soak in the hot tub. it's pretty low-key around here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a vary lucky guy. I have a Beautiful wife that is bi and wanting to explore. And she is happy for me to do the same. So I'm looking for a best friend. I love being a physically affectionate person so well a girl friend.
You should message me if
I'm looking for that feeling you get hanging out with a best friend after your chores are done you're comfortable and relaxed with a cold drink watching the sunset talking about good things telling jokes. Just happy to hang out. casual like, you're not worried about the consequences. you don't feel the need to perform. you're doing it because you want to. you don't need a reason our goal. Sex requires some trust and respect. So having enough trust and respect with someone so you can have casual sex sounds great.