I love to laugh and enjoy spending time with someone who has a decent sense of humor. I prefer casual dates where people can just be them self rather than dressing up and sitting in uncomfortable silence wishing that I had worn a different pair of shoes.
I have found myself involved with men who claim that women have no clue what they want.. I am sure I do not speak for all women but for myself and many others, we really want pretty much the same things so I've compiled a simple list...
1.Tell the damn truth (even if it gets you in trouble)
2.Do what you say you are going to do.
3. stop pulling the blanket over my head when you do that !
4. try remembering the Little Things (Birthdays, Anniversaries or Special Memories, write it down if you have to)
5. show me you care once in a while ( a note, a compliment, pick a wild flower, even a kiss Just Because).
6.Show Up! Be There! ( hold my hand when I'm scared, sad or lonely, share joy & laughter when things are good or just be there with strong arms to hold me when I cry.) *I promise to give the same in return*
7.Don't be Too Clingy, Possessive or Jealous.. But don't act as though we don't matter either!
8.Share Yourself...not your bodily functions, we like to know WHO YOU ARE.. what you like, want, what your hopes and dreams are?
9.Be Spontaneous .. Surprise us once in awhile! and I don't mean back there!
10.Be Yourself! Don't try and impress me with what you have or who you know... Just be YOU! Keep in mind that this is just a guideline and not rules set in stone, well maybe a little.
I really don't think these things are too much to ask or hope for, Being a die hard Romantic I guess I will never give up hope on finding someone who is not perfect but is perfect for me. Someone who loves to be silly once in awhile, who is caring, affectionate, passionate, has a good heart, is intelligent, wildly humorous, handsome, sexy and has a good spirit! Could that be you?