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53 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a 53-year-old man, self-confident and comfortable in my skin, a creative guy, writer, editor, singer and more, the single dad of a wonderful 10-year-old. I love beauty as well as substance, and I dwell on the positive. I write songs, shoot photos and admire skies, hold my daughter's hand as she gets to know the world. My other hand longs to hold yours, actually, as we explore these hills and valleys.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm raising my daughter, earning a living as a freelance writer, strumming my guitar, enjoying San Francisco, dreaming of meeting a wonderful partner in crime ...
I’m really good at
Getting down to brass tacks;
Going out to dinner;
Boiling pasta to perfection;
Being a dad;
Singing melody;
Playing bar chords;
Throwing and catching balls;
Making babies laugh;
Drinking coffee;
Capturing mood;
Washing dishes AND folding clothes.
Touching ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes?
That I still have my hair?
That I look a little like Clooney?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Cool Gray City of Love by Gary Kamiya; anything by Neruda, Garcia Marquez, Isabel Allende, contemporary fiction.
Movies: Wings of Desire
Shows? I don't watch much TV, but I'd watch with you.
Music: Alternative country folk/rock singer/songwriter stuff! Iron and Wine, Gram Parsons, Radiohead, the Jayhawks, Neil Young, Leonard Cohen, Beck.
Food: Paella! Pasta! Sushi!
The six things I could never do without
My daughter.
Beaches within, say, 10 miles.
Dogs and babies.
Love, or the dream of love.
Mediterranean cuisine.
The camera on my iPhone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The truly limited amount of time we have in these bodies. My firm belief in karma and happenstance. How the world can be so beautiful sometimes. Pure vision. Whatever comes next. If you and I are meant to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
making dinner for my daughter, maybe watching a movie with her, putting her peacefully, happily to bed -- and then sliding out when the babysitter arrives to catch a great band or cocktail somewhere!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty much an open book .... but I guess I could share that I sometimes sleep with a pillow over my head. Not sure what that accomplishes.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you're a happy woman who yearns for the company of a warm, creative, passionate, mellow man and his sweet-as-pie 10-year-old daughter. You must be light of heart, have a sense of humor, be left-leaning, not too materially-inclined -- and be pretty on the inside and out. Is that too much to dream?