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ruthless123

34 F Somerville, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:17am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Fluently), Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
born and raised (until 18) in kentucky. i have kind of a ridiculous
attachment to my home state. it’s lovely, grounded, underrated. if you want to debate the south v. midwest classification, just ask.

i’m a pretty open person. i’ll admit to sometimes being slow to warm up to new people but i’m usually up for trying just about anything. this past February i spent a week cross country skiing in the Gaspé peninsula with a group of 250 strangers after reading a travel article in the nytimes last year. it was the highlight of my year, even if my knees still hate me. if you wanna cross country ski or bike out to Walden, i’m in. i love to walk (fast), bike (slow), cross-country ski (slower), and run (slowest).

i work in higher ed administration and recently got my masters in general management. so now i can specifically administer and manage all things general.

i love (hate) living so close to Market Basket. it’s my destiny and my curse. i’ve ended up with sawdust covering my pants more times than I care to admit.

my walking commute to work is one of my favorite parts of my day. i don't own a car, and i mostly only miss it in the summer and winter when i want to get out of the city spontaneously and don’t want to have to worry about returning my $%@ zipcar on time in Union Square.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
really?

taking it one step at a time, trying to filter out what i want from what others want from me, and trying to stay open, calm, and content.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
capitalization.

taking risks. quietly but with chutzpah. always with scrappiness.

giving advice. and listening. problem-solving.

pushing through shyness. sometimes embracing it.

remembering details about people (which i sometimes have to hide, or else i sound ridiculous).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i'm pretty tall. and my face turns red because of pretty much anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
music: yeah yeah yeahs, ben sollee, the milk carton kids, justin townes earle, phosphorescent, the arcade fire, nina simone, otis redding, ray lamontagne, thao and the get down stay down, paul simon, bon iver, rachel yamagata, regina spektor, the kills, french kicks, a.a.bondy, delta spirit, sarah jaffe, the black keys, old crow medicine show, cat power, tUnE-yArDs, hurray for the riffraff.

movies: beginners, before sunrise, before sunset, stranger than fiction, amelie, une liaison pornographique, the goonies.

books: anything by ian mcewan. the world according to garp. paris to the moon. gilead.

drinks: bourbon. (what's a girl from kentucky gonna do).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
humor.
self awareness.
honesty.
music.
my running shoes.
the kindest father.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why the people i pass on my walk to work every morning never smile. like, ever.

why my siblings/family & i don't live anywhere near each other, & if/when i want to change this.

when i can get a dog. & what kind it will be. & how much fun we will have (so much!).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
most likely grabbing a few drinks with some friends.

and usually just trying to keep my eyes open.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
um, no thank you.

okay, alright. i can be too polite.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
i used to list fluffier stuff on here like, “you love music and like to listen to podcasts and…” i’m realizing this stuff is less important to me than the following…so here goes:

you're thoughtful, self aware, and kind. an appreciator of introverts.

i tend to fit better with men who are emotionally open, honest, and good communicators. patience, down-to-earthness, and openness are important to me.

you know how to ask questions.

also, i'm on here to date. if you're just looking to hook-up, please don't waste both of our times.