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rvdh

60 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 48–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:03pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I consider myself a passionate, self-deprecating man who doesn't take himself too seriously. To any relationship, I try to bring humor and silliness, combined with warmth and a willingness to show my affection in any way I can. I enjoy expressing my romantic side in ways both small and big.

I love a good conversation, a relationship of continued mutual curiosity, and simply the comfort and affection of shared silence.

I try to be both passionate and compassionate about anything I do. My values and political views are important to me, and I'm not a big believer that opposites attract in that respect.

I'm flawed. I wish I were less impatient at times. I can be too moody and more cynical than I have a right to be. Oh, and I'm not a fix-it guy. You love a man who can rebuild the third floor on a Sunday afternoon? So do I. I can change a fuse.

I'm also a firm believer in the warmth of openly expressed affection — the touch of hands, a hug at any time, knuckles brushed lightly across a face, a touching of foreheads. So, if that sort of thing makes you uncomfortable, well, give me a call anyway, and I'll try to change your mind.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living life as a new New Yorker, fortunate to be working in a position I like very much, and taking my sweet golden retriever for walks in the park.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing and editing, making (most) people laugh, forgetting things, napping, spilling things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of humor, long eyelashes, nasally upstate New York accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books — pretty much anything written by T.C. Boyle; some great reads include "The Imperfectionists," by Tom Rachman, "Major Pettigrew's Last Stand," by Helen Simonson, and "The Post-Birthday World," by Lionel Shriver; love non-fiction, too. Now reading "The Bully Pulpit," by Doris Kearns Goodwin, and "Bark," short stories by Lorrie Moore.

Theater — any live theater, really. The immediacy and visceral impact appeal to me. Loved "Buyer & Cellar," funny and poignant, about actor living in Barbra Streisand's basement.

Music — the blues (the screaming electric kind), funk, R&B, rock, Southern Culture on the Skids, classical, some jazz. In the grip of a funk mode at the moment.

Food — Anything from a great enchilada to Beijing duck. A lot of stuff I shouldn't ... bacon (maybe the single tastiest thing on the planet), peanut butter, a great cheeseburger, chocolate milkshake, cashews).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My two children, a good book, a laptop or a pad and pen, music, something to laugh about, ice cream. Wait, that's seven. Oh, and my reading glasses. And peanut butter. Geez, what about my dog? Coffee, coffee, can't leave that out. A good expletive. Hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
something forgotten or misplaced. I know it's here somewhere ...

... and my children's well-being. And relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My second toe is longer than my "big" toe.
You should message me if
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you see something in my eyes or my words that sparks your interest.