Meow! I actually have no fondness for cats at all but I do like what they say. Anyway, successful city dwelling professional IT techie type. I'm from Chicago and lived in several downtown and nearby areas but was living in Miami and NJ Shore since about 15 years ago. One son grown and living independently. Divorced for a few years and was in full-on life transition mode over the past couple. Things all settled down now and feels like I have more freedom than I know what to do with. The right companion is missing now. I'm the sort that cares a lot more about basic attraction than all these silly stats.