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21 Uniondale, NY Man


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  • Ages 18–30
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My details

Last online
Sep 15
Black, White
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Working on University
Might want kids
English, French
My self-summary
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Hey there! I'm Ryan. I'm a sensitive, laid-back, drama free kind of guy. I'm pretty shy. Sometimes very shy. Sometimes not that shy at all.

I try very hard not to judge people.

I don't tend to take anything too seriously. Roughly 73% of what I say is sarcastic.

I love trying new foods and trying new things in general. My sweet tooth is ravenous and insatiable.

I go to the gym a few times a week because working out helps me release anger that I cannot release in any other healthy, socially acceptable way.

I'm really into music of all kinds. I appreciate everything, but indie rock is my main jam. I love reading. There's nothing like getting lost in a good book. Horror and thrillers are my favorite. The darker and creepier the better. I write manuscripts, short stories, song lyrics, and poetry in my free time--all of it is pretty dark.

I enjoy alone time but I like having someone to cuddle with.

I think I'm (relatively) mature for my age but I have the imagination of a child soooo my sense of humor is all over the place. Puns drive me wild. Give me some of those and you have my heart.

I am quirky and say weird things but I'm never crass or impolite until I know you really well. I hate small talk. I try to avoid it at all costs. I love deep, intellectual conversations and coming to understand people.

I will be the first to admit that I am lost (in general) but I think I'm supposed to be at this age. I'm also damaged--still recovering from things in my past and learning how to be a whole person who doesn't judge himself. Everyday takes me a little bit by surprise. I'm super spontaneous so I try my best to roll with the punches and enjoy that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying theatre and film and writing a lot a lot a lot. Creating art from my experiences, thoughts, and perspectives and learning as much as possible. I aim to be a professional writer or editor at a publication or a graphic designer if the whole writing thing doesn't work out. Or a professional actor because...dreams and what not.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, acting, being a few minutes late, listening, caring and seeing through fake people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm quiet. But my eyes say it all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like a lot of Neal Shusterman's work. I haven't read a book I really love since The Hunger Games though. I like thrillers and horror for the most part. Recommend something?

Movies: The list is very long. I have eclectic tastes and can watch and appreciate anything as long as it's well done, but I can watch The Incredibles and How to Train Your Dragon a billion times and never get tired of those.

TV: Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, Parenthood, Community, Orange is the New Black, Shameless, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Modern Family, Mad Men, among many others. I watch everything. Again, eclectic tastes.

Music: Mostly alternative, indie pop, indie rock, and synthpop, but I appreciate standouts in lots of different genres including hip-hop, rap, and country. Some of my favorite bands are Freelance Whales, Walk The Moon, Chvrches and Sir Sly.

Food: Pizza and cupcakes. I'm not a fatass, I just love these foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My imagination.
My mom (she's like my best friend).
My weirdly conservative but truly down-to-earth and wonderful friends.
Apple pie.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm going to get to where I want to go. If I'm good enough to get to where I want to go. If I'll be alone forever. If true love exists. Human nature. Food. Sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie, catching up on a show, strumming my ukulele, writing, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm recovering from a long self-esteem struggle. Get to know me and I'll be willing to admit a lot more private things.
You should message me if
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You're nice, intelligent and interesting. I'm up for a relationship, or just friendship, or we can just be pen pals. Really I just want someone to get to know intimately and someone to feel safe with.