Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there! I'm Ryan. I'm a sensitive, laid-back, drama free kind of
guy. I'm pretty shy. Sometimes very shy. Sometimes not that shy at
I try very hard not to judge people.
I don't tend to take anything too seriously. Roughly 73% of what I
say is sarcastic.
I love trying new foods and trying new things in general. My sweet
tooth is ravenous and insatiable.
I go to the gym a few times a week because working out helps me
release anger that I cannot release in any other healthy, socially
I'm really into music of all kinds. I appreciate everything, but
indie rock is my main jam. I love reading. There's nothing like
getting lost in a good book. Horror and thrillers are my favorite.
The darker and creepier the better. I write manuscripts, short
stories, song lyrics, and poetry in my free time--all of it is
I enjoy alone time but I like having someone to cuddle with.
I think I'm (relatively) mature for my age but I have the
imagination of a child soooo my sense of humor is all over the
place. Puns drive me wild. Give me some of those and you have my
I am quirky and say weird things but I'm never crass or impolite
until I know you really well. I hate small talk. I try to avoid it
at all costs. I love deep, intellectual conversations and coming to
I will be the first to admit that I am lost (in general) but I
think I'm supposed to be at this age. I'm also damaged--still
recovering from things in my past and learning how to be a whole
person who doesn't judge himself. Everyday takes me a little bit by
surprise. I'm super spontaneous so I try my best to roll with the
punches and enjoy that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying theatre and film and writing a lot a lot a lot. Creating
art from my experiences, thoughts, and perspectives and learning as
much as possible. I aim to be a professional writer or editor at a
publication or a graphic designer if the whole writing thing
doesn't work out. Or a professional actor because...dreams and what
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, acting, being a few minutes late, listening, caring and
seeing through fake people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm quiet. But my eyes say it all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like a lot of Neal Shusterman's work. I haven't read a book I
really love since The Hunger Games though. I like thrillers and
horror for the most part. Recommend something?
Movies: The list is very long. I have eclectic tastes and can watch
and appreciate anything as long as it's well done, but I can watch
The Incredibles and How to Train Your Dragon a billion times and
never get tired of those.
TV: Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, Parenthood, Community,
Orange is the New Black, Shameless, Avatar: The Last Airbender,
Modern Family, Mad Men, among many others. I watch everything.
Again, eclectic tastes.
Music: Mostly alternative, indie pop, indie rock, and synthpop, but
I appreciate standouts in lots of different genres including
hip-hop, rap, and country. Some of my favorite bands are Freelance
Whales, Walk The Moon, Chvrches and Sir Sly.
Food: Pizza and cupcakes. I'm not a fatass, I just love these
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mom (she's like my best friend).
My weirdly conservative but truly down-to-earth and wonderful
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm going to get to where I want to go. If I'm good enough to
get to where I want to go. If I'll be alone forever. If true love
exists. Human nature. Food. Sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie, catching up on a show, strumming my ukulele,
writing, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm recovering from a long self-esteem struggle. Get to know me and
I'll be willing to admit a lot more private things.
You should message me if
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You're nice, intelligent and interesting. I'm up for a
relationship, or just friendship, or we can just be pen pals.
Really I just want someone to get to know intimately and someone to
feel safe with.
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