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32 Arlington, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–32
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I recently moved back up to the DC area after four great years in Austin. It was hard leaving an amazing group of friends, but I really wanted to be closer to family again. I got lucky in that a position was open in one of my firm's local offices that also presented the step up I was seeking professionally, so here I am.

As far as dating goes, I'm not so much interested in sitting through a pressure-packed first date where we evaluate each other's odds of being "the one." I'd rather something a little more organic than forced, preferably hanging out with someone awesome, doing some exploring around DC, and letting things develop as they may.

I'm a pretty grounded, well-rounded guy and would like to think I have my act together. I'm responsible and serious when necessary, but otherwise prefer joking around, dry humor, and a decent dose of sarcasm. So pretty much I'm going to make fun of you sometimes and you should be okay with that because I'm expecting you to (figuratively) bust my balls on occasion as well.

The ideal girl in my book has a humble confidence, knows what she wants in a guy, appreciates the little things, communicates well, enjoys staying active with the guy she's dating, has a great sense of humor, loves dogs, and is unabashedly honest and genuine. A love of travel would go a long way - both big trips and road trips - as would her being a sports lover. Bonus points if she's willing to wake up early on the weekend, throw on a Liverpool jersey that's too big for her, and fall back asleep while she "watches soccer with me."

If it sounds like we're on the same page, say hey!
What I’m doing with my life
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Drawing pretty pictures and knowing all my shapes as an architect. It's actually a really complicated job, but there's nothing in the world like walking through a building that used to only exist as an idea in your head. In other news, I'm a nerd.

A video about my current project:
The Lab School of Washington

Typically I'd also say that I play a ton of soccer, but I have to get some torn cartilage repaired before I can play again. So until I get that fixed, I enjoy golfing, my dog Brooks, and am debating going for my private pilot's license.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
■ Soccer
■ Sarcasm
■ Figuring Things Out
■ Applying Sunscreen
■ Planning + Making Lists
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes or butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I mostly read non-fiction, but I like anything by Dan Brown.

The Shawshank Redemption
Django Unchained

TV Shows:
The Office
Daily Show
60 Minutes
Shark Tank
Master Chef
Jimmy Fallon
Colbert Report

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
■ family
■ friends
■ my dog
■ traveling
■ sports/competition
■ goals to chase, big and small
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends at someone's place, occasionally out, or maybe just relaxing if it was a particularly exhausting week at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a Christmas baby.
You should message me if
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■ You're baggage-free.
■ Your eyebrows don't connect.
■ There's more to your profile than cleavage.
■ You don't take anything (including yourself) too seriously.
■ You know about your/you're, there/their/they're, and to/too.