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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 23
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think I'm a pretty genuine guy, or at least always try to be. I laugh a lot at some pretty dumb things, but also like having my mind stretched and being exposed to things I don't understand. If you're goofy and can also get down with some serious conversation, we may get along well.

It'd be great to go with the flow and meet people who I get along with as friends before anything else. I'm not in any rush.

This is a pretty lame summary (admittedly, I hate writing about myself), but if anything that you read sparks some curiosity, message me and we'll go from there.

Oh, and there's this:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After my quarter-life-crisis led to changing all my plans to hop on the law school track, I dropped that idea like a bad habit and started working on getting my M.A. in Drama. No, it has nothing to do with acting. Think a good mix of theory, criticism, history, and lit. If you're into politics and performance, definitely say hi.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
*Making up semi-coherent lyrics to songs in which I have no idea of the actual words.
*Procrastinating. And stressing over said procrastination.
*Assembling tents.
*Figuring out public trans systems in foreign countries.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get what you know as "asian glow."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Utopia, Harry Potter (all of 'em), Medea, The Bridges of Madison County, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, Inferno, The Velvet Rage, On Genocide, The Empty Space, Phaedra, The Normal Heart -- Not all favorites, but it'll give you an idea of some stuff I'm into.

I'm pretty big on 90's comedies. And quoting them.

Arrested Development, The Golden Girls, 30 Rock, SNL, Reno 911, Summer Heights High, Strangers with Candy, Ab Fab, and I love me some Downton Abbey.

On repeat lately are alt-J, Fever Ray, Clint Mansell, Heart, London Grammar, Marilyn Manson, Arthur Beatrice, Banks, Verdi, Mø, Purity Ring, Radiohead, and Lianne La Havas. My favorite playlist on Spotify is Deep Dark Indie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art (of all kinds)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making things.
The future.
Why there isn't any place in San Francisco that sells pizza by the ounce.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for adventure. Searching for live music. Working. Seeing plays.

Something like that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's rare that I have the balls to approach people I'm interested in. So hopefully, you do.

Oh, and I'm INFJ.
You should message me if
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*You don't take yourself too seriously.
*You think takeout and Netflix sound like better options than running to the Castro.
*You think anything Kristen Wiig has ever touched is golden.
*You care about people more than money.