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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 5
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Santa Cruz native and I am still in love with living here. All the same I like getting out. I'm a museum, roadside attraction, national park and all around nature lover and I try to find my way all over for a fix of something new and inspiring. When I'm not working or exploring or lately trying to exercise more, I'm finding a cozy if not pretty place to read a book or at a coffee shop or bar where I can grab a beverage and write some of my unsellable but self satisfying fiction. I need either to explore stuff or be creating stuff...or be asleep...or else I just pase and go crazy.

All that being said who I am changes a lot. The only constants are my sister and collecting new friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

I pay the bills with video production though. I've been working in TV since I was 14 and never stopped. It's a lotta fun but I'm actually going back to school in the fall and see if I can make a change somehow. I like learning and doing new things and i kinda feel I did my time in my current profession and should start discovering what else I'm good at.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching and procrastinating.
Being useful with my hands.
Fixing things, or obsessing about them until I do fix them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes or my silver fox patch. I like it when they awkwardly build up to asking "um, so is that real or..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'll nerd out or geek out about many things. My moods change a lot. But i can say that I especially like things if they make me nostalgic...or makes me laugh until I realize I'm laughing at myself laughing... I like reading all things, particular if they happen to provide me fuel for conversation and that often means nonfiction. I have a lot of scifi under my belt though, the list is quite long.

I like tv, netflix/hulu and have a few shows I keep up to date on: Gotham is one of my favorites right now. But I dunno, sometime I just like whatever is on, I guess it keeps me company while I do other things like write letters or draw.

I will drop everything if Doctor Who is on though.

I like too many movies to list. The things I'll wait in line for typically involve spaceships and ray guns and capes though. I'm a big Simon Pegg fan too. Oh and Ghostbusters is the best movie ever made...obviously.

And I like road trips! And hikes and camping and starlight and holy crap!!...WHERE AM I GOING NEXT?!

Music is too hard. My mood changes all the time. There isnt much that I don't like and you'll love and hate half of anything I say. Tom Waits though, I'll put him here. That's only fair.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sister, she really is all I need on this list.
All the same:
-Cats and dogs to pet.
-My sketchbook/notepad.
-My friends at the other end of my camera lens.

... I dunno, 2 more... Bacon and Eggs?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Regeration cycles
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine and watching a show somewhere, if I'm not working. Maybe my friend will be doing standup and I'll be at the pub. Maybe my other friend will be in town for tango. Maybe I'll be cat sitting and hanging out with Serling the most amzing cat in the world. I dunno!
You should message me if
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If you do I'll be pleasantly surprised and probably like you by default.