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31 Takoma Park, MD Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
Asian, White
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
- The skinny: MD -> PA-> Nagoya -> MD -> Chicago -> MD. Someday I'm going to add Oahu as my last stop. I like travelling (who doesn't!?) roller coasters, new stuff, socializing in small groups, gardening, cooking, reading, and having Seinfeld-esque discussions about everyday minutiae.

- I'm interested in anything and everything, and I can get pretty geeky about things, especially when I have somebody to bounce ideas off of. Haven't you heard? Happiness multiplies when shared. ;)

- Documentaries, new experiences/international travel, wine tasting, roller coasters, discovering cool new-to-me places on yelp/eater, walking/hiking/picnics, and deep intellectual discussions about psychology, current events, history, science, health, technology, etc. are not only welcome, but encouraged. Seriously, my mind never stops.

- I'll whisper you dirty jokes in a classy restaurant so's we can get our laugh on in the most appropriately inappropriate of times. :P

- I was gaming and watching anime way before it was cool. While my WoW days are certainly behind me, now I’ve moved on to board games. Cards Against Humanity, anyone? I guess you could call me a closet geek/nerd, but unlike the stereotype, I do prioritize exercise and hygiene.

- I don't really have a "getting to know you" period. I'll talk to you like I've known you for years. Although, I am actually really sensitive to other's emotional states, and it definitely helps if you are, too. That being said, I take people at their word and appreciate the same in return.

- I'm looking for someone who has layers, is genuine, affectionate, full of passion, and is willing to go questing with me on this crazy adventure known as life.

4w5 INFJ. Cuz why not.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing adult things with child-like enthusiasm. :D

Eating my way through DC, one delicious discovery at a time. My current favorite is the brunch at Iron Gate. I would do borderline illegal things for their Nicolaki cocktail. Food is fucking amazing and just another way to have an adventure. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking! And baking! And feeding people...

Warm hugs. :) Caring. Listening, understanding, and seeing a concept from many different angles, from the deeply complex to the mundane and absurd.

Getting lost and pretending to take the scenic route to get to our destination.

Introducing my more uptight friends to the trenches of debauchery that exist in our society. You know what a "Cosby sweater" is, right? Go ahead, urban dictionary it. I'll wait. ;)

But honestly, I truly enjoy learning. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm good at it but that's what life is about - progression.

What I'm not good at: small talk, crowded bars and clubs where you have to shout to even hear yourself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have rbf. Great for shutting down randoms when you naturally look like grumpy cat.

I abhor selfishness and self-centeredness in any form.

"What exactly ARE you?" I've gotten everything from Spanish, Filipino, Native American, Eskimo...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Parallel Universes (Michio Kaku), Gaiman, Atwood, Quiet: The Power of Introverts, The Night Circus, The Mortal Instruments/The Infernal Devices, the Omnivore's Dilemma.

Movies: The Fountain, Cloud Atlas, Atonement, Lars and the Real Girl, Gone with the Wind, House of Flying Daggers, Shinobi, Kingdom of Heaven, Death at a Funeral, Blades of Glory, Zoolander.

TV shows: The Daily Show, Last Week Tonight, SNL, Archer, Game of Thrones, Silicon Valley, the League, Always Sunny, Seinfeld, Southpark, Breaking Bad, True Detective, Da Vinci's Demons, Firefly, Downton, Skins (original UK), Borgias, Top Chef, British period series, Asian dramas, Anime (subbed only!), and documentaries.

Music: A few select American bands, Jpop, Kpop, TWpop, classical music (I played the violin for 8 years as a kid so - like with diamonds - I pretty much have to). I'm open to suggestions!

Food: Contemporary American/molecular gastronomy; local nose-to-tail, farm-to-table cooking, heirloom stuff I grow, sushi, dim sum and really anything good. Tasting menus. Borderline chef groupie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Internet/smartphone/e-reader. I need a constant influx of information.
2. My lifelong friends and good company. Anything is an adventure with good company.
3. Honesty & curiosity
4. Puzzles
5. Kindness
6. Laughs, especially those induced by movie/tv references
7. The calm before a summer's storm

Yes, I know that's 7. I'm such a rebel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place, one person at a time. And people - how they interact, what makes them tick, how they love, how they hate, and what to do about it - on an individual level.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sobbing uncontrollably into a pint of Americone Dream as I realize that yet, once again, I'll be a regular at the self service pump.

Seriously, what did you expect me to say? :P Like everyone else, I'l be unwinding from a long week...whatever that entails.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a hopeless romantic. Don't judge!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're relentlessly curious. You think and feel in color. You're easily excited over big and small things alike. You don't mind a person who will challenge you to be a better version of yourself.

You aren't a conversational narcissist. You can tolerate bouts of geekiness and uncouth humor. You actually want to meet up, not just write messages like penpals. Oh, and you're not a douche. :P