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30 Takoma Park, MD Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 19
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
- I'm too smart for my own good. Also too much of a smartass for my own good.

- Documentaries, new experiences/international travel, and deep intellectual discussions about psychology, current events, history, science, health, technology, etc. are not only welcome, but encouraged. Seriously, my mind never stops. Sapio-sexual, because intelligence is hawt.

- I enjoy a twisted sense of humor. People that are different interest me the most.

- When I say that I’m a foodie, I’m not just saying yeah, I’ll eat Thai/Ethiopian/whatever, I’m saying I’m an avid tasting menu goer and borderline chef groupie.

- It's not apparent at first, but I'm pretty introverted. Yet I'm probably the most outgoing introvert you'll ever meet. There is nothing more that I love than getting to know a person at their core.

- I was gaming and watching anime way before it was cool. While my WoW days are certainly behind me, now I’ve moved on to board games. Cards Against Humanity, anyone? I guess you could call me a closet geek/nerd, but unlike the stereotype, I do prioritize exercise and hygiene.

- I’m attracted to quality and novelty, especially in places, food, humor, ideas, and people. No topic of conversation is too "out there" for me to entertain.

- I don't really have a "getting to know you" period. I'll talk to you like I've known you for years.

- I pay just as much attention to what people don’t say as to what they do say, and actions really do speak louder than words.

- I'll play by social rules, but if you're the type of person eschews them in your private life, we'll definitely get along. Who says we can't stay over eating pizza and watching Always Sunny on a school night?

- Anything worth doing is worth doing right. I never half-ass any project I undertake, be it work, hobbies, travel, friends, family, or my relationship.

- I value honesty, integrity, self-awareness, ingenuity, loyalty, dedication, and kindness. For the select few in my inner circle, I would do anything, make any sacrifice, for their sake. I am looking for the same resolve in my partner.

- Everyone knows it is important that we share common activities, and have great discussions together. However, these things are meaningless if there is no emotional connection. I'd like a partner who wants to work together with me to build and maintain that connection. When I love, I love freely, as if I've never been hurt.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Live & die by the mbti! Also using my skills to pay the bills. Legal skills, that is.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking! and baking! and feeding people...

Listening, understanding, and seeing a concept from many different angles.

But honestly, I truly enjoy learning. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm good at it but that's what life is about - progression.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"What exactly ARE you?" I've gotten everything from Spanish, Filipino, Native American, Eskimo...

Tbh, I'll probably be able to notice much more about you than you'll notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Parallel Universes (Michio Kaku), Quiet: The Power of Introverts, The Night Circus, The Mortal Instruments/The Infernal Devices, the Omnivore's Dilemma.

Movies: The Fountain, Atonement, Lars and the Real Girl, Gone with the Wind, House of Flying Daggers, Shinobi, Kingdom of Heaven, Death at a Funeral, Blades of Glory, Zoolander.

TV shows: The Daily Show, Last Week Tonight, SNL, Game of Thrones, Silicon Valley, the League, Always Sunny, Seinfeld, Southpark, Breaking Bad, Da Vinci's Demons, Firefly, Downton, Skins (original UK), Borgias, Asian dramas, Anime (subbed only!), and documentaries.

Music: A few select American bands, Jpop, Kpop, TWpop, classical music. I'm open to suggestions!

Food: Contemporary American/molecular gastronomy; local nose-to-tail, farm-to-table cooking, heirloom stuff I grow, sushi, dim sum and really anything good. Tasting menus. Borderline chef groupie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Internet/smartphone/e-reader. I need a constant influx of information.
2. Money...for culinary exploits!
3. Honesty & intellectual curiosity
4. Kindness (I like to give at least as much as I want to receive)
5. Laughs
6. The calm before a summer's storm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Why?" - because it's the only question that matters.

How to make the world a better place, one person at a time. And people - how they interact, what makes them tick, how they love, how they hate, and what to do about it - on an individual level.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rick rolling a boss.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no shame. Not in the sense of wow, somebody needs to calm that chick down, but more in the sense of I know who I am, what I want, what I feel, and I'm not ashamed to speak directly about it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're into meeting new people, I interest you, you can put up with occasional bouts of geek-ness and uncouth humor, you don't do hook ups (trust me, I'm saving you from disappointment), you have a decent EQ level...and you're not a douche!