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29 F Takoma Park, MD

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:47pm
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
- I'm too smart for my own good. Also too much of a smartass for my own good.

- I'm a sucker for some good comedy.

- A good conversation is like a game of tennis, and I despise it when people treat their conversations like monologues. If you're that self-absorbed, there's a reason why you're a regular at the self-service pump. Just sayin'.

- It's not apparent at first, but I'm pretty introverted. The club/bar scene is not my thing, and I much prefer intimate evenings at home to going out partying.

- I value honesty, integrity, self-awareness, ingenuity, loyalty, dedication, and kindness. For the select few in my inner circle, I would do anything, make any sacrifice, for their sake. I am looking for the same resolve in my partner.

- Most people spend their time trying to think outside of the box. The box is a prison of your mind. Break it.
What I’m doing with my life
Live & die by the Mbti! INFJ.

I may not always tell you what you want to hear, but I will always tell you the truth.

Also using my skills to pay the bills. Legal skills, that is.
I’m really good at
Cooking! and baking! and feeding people...

Losing while playing board games. Settlers, Cash and guns, 7 Wonders, Cards Against Humanity...

Posing interesting and seemingly far-fetched theories to explain abstract paradigms and the mysteries of the universe. I've been told my brain functions on a different wavelength, so my thoughts are rarely dull.

But honestly, I truly enjoy learning. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm good at it but that's what life is about - progression.
The first things people usually notice about me
"What exactly ARE you?" I've gotten everything from Spanish, Filipino, Native American, Eskimo...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Quiet: The Power of Introverts, The Night Circus, The Mortal Instruments/The Infernal Devices, the Omnivore's Dilemma.

Movies: The Fountain, Atonement, Lars and the Real Girl, Gone with the Wind, House of Flying Daggers, Shinobi, Kingdom of Heaven, Death at a Funeral, Movie 43, Blades of Glory, Zoolander.

TV shows: The Daily Show, Last Week Tonight, SNL, Game of Thrones, Silicon Valley, the League, Always Sunny, Seinfeld, Southpark, Da Vinci's Demons, Firefly, Downton, Skins (original UK), Borgias, Asian dramas, Anime (subbed only!), and documentaries.

Music: A few select American bands, Jpop, Kpop, TWpop, classical music.

Food: Contemporary American/molecular gastronomy; local nose-to-tail, farm-to-table cooking, heirloom stuff I grow, sushi, dim sum and really anything good. Tasting menus. Borderline chef groupie.
The six things I could never do without
1. Internet/smartphone/e-reader. I need a constant influx of information.
2. Money...for culinary exploits!
3. Intelligence & self-awareness.
4. Hawaii
5. Laughs
6. The calm before a summer's storm

Most important:
Genuine affection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the world a better place, one person at a time. And people - how they interact, what makes them tick, how they love, how they hate, and what to do about it - on an individual level.

And why guys on this site prefer texting over phone calls. Seriously, that's lamesawce.
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding from a long week of work...whatever that may entail.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"Still waters run deep."

Also, I'm a total geek. ORLY? YARLY. If you know what WoW, FFIV, Fushigi Yuugi and Rurouni Kenshin are (without googling!), we will get along just fine ;)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you're into meeting new people, I interest you, you can put up with occasional bouts of geek-ness and uncouth humor, you don't do hook ups (trust me, I'm saving you from disappointment), you're an old soul surviving in this modern world, you're intelligent as well as empathetic, and you're not afraid to be open & honest with your thoughts.