In the process of updating my profile I deleted almost every part
of my self summary. The majority of it was written at a time in my
life when I barely knew who I was let alone what I was looking for
in my life, but the following is a pretty accurate description of
who I am at my core.
I am Kind, Intelligent, and passionate
also Funny (at least I make myself cackle)
So if you are looking for something like that then shoot me a
message. We can always get into the details later, it's more fun to
discover things through conversation anyway :)
What I’m doing with my life
Doing my best to find happiness and working to become the man I
wish to be. (Also working as an actor/teaching artist/drag queen)
I’m really good at
Over analyzing my life to the point of madness, arts and crafts of
all varieties (you should see some of the candles I've made),
teaching young kids how to make a fool of themselves on stage and
love it, being there for my friends even when I end up washing
their dirty dishes
The first things people usually notice about me
I am a big guy with a big heart. Plus my hair lately is looking
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: So many, but here goes. Absolutely anything by Brandon Sanderson (Elantris, Mistborn, Well of Ascension, Hero of Ages, Warbreaker), Robert Jordan's entire wheel of time series (so satisfied with how the series ended :), Stephen Ericksons whole malazan the fallen series, Orson Scott Card, Robin Hobb, Neil Gaiman, and Terry Pratchet. Not to mention George R. R. Martin and of course my first love Tolkein. Can you guess my favorite genre?
Movies: The Scent of a Woman, District 9, Philadelphia, Angels in America, Doubt, (500) Days of Summer, To Wong Fu: Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar, The Birdcage, Kill Bill, Clue, Pan's Labrinth, Dark Crystal, Juno, Wit, Fame, Serenty/Firefly (best TV show ever), Nightmare before Christmas, Love Actually, Big Fish, and Reefer Madness the Movie Musical.
Music: I am a big Broadway fan, but besides the show tunes: The Neilds, Green Day, Jay Brannan, Evanescence, and pretty much anything that has a good beat and a little soul in it. I am also a complete sucker for violins, cellos and most other stringed instruments. A good singer will get me everytime as well.
Food: Chinese, Italian, Greek, Indian, American, Japanese, pretty much anything that I don't have to cook for myself.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How excited I am to be 30. I know the cliche for many gay men is that life ends at the age of 30, but for me I feel like now that I have finally gotten through the grueling crucible of my 20s I am finally at a place in my life where I can really start to live. I know who I am, I know what I want, and I get to spend the rest of my life pursuing it. Now I just need to find someone to share the journey with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either in a show, out to a show, hanging with friends, or relaxing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a bit of a secret gamer, it just takes the right combination
of people to pull out my hidden geekdom
You should message me if
you want to :). There is no better way to know if we might be right
for each other than having a conversation, so pull the rip cord my
friend and let's see what happens!