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rywalter

29 Philadelphia, PA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 24
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In the process of updating my profile I deleted almost every part of my self summary. The majority of it was written at a time in my life when I barely knew who I was let alone what I was looking for in my life, but the following is a pretty accurate description of who I am at my core.

I am Kind, Intelligent, and passionate

also Funny (at least I make myself cackle)

So if you are looking for something like that then shoot me a message. We can always get into the details later, it's more fun to discover things through conversation anyway :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing my best to find happiness and working to become the man I wish to be. (Also working as an actor/teaching artist/drag queen)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over analyzing my life to the point of madness, arts and crafts of all varieties (you should see some of the candles I've made), teaching young kids how to make a fool of themselves on stage and love it, being there for my friends even when I end up washing their dirty dishes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a big guy with a big heart. Plus my hair lately is looking just spectacular!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: So many, but here goes. Absolutely anything by Brandon Sanderson (Elantris, Mistborn, Well of Ascension, Hero of Ages, Warbreaker), Robert Jordan's entire wheel of time series (still can't wait for the 12th book to finally come out), Stephen Ericksons whole malazan the fallen series, Orson Scott Card, Robin Hobb, Neil Gaiman, and Terry Pratchet. Not to mention George R. R. Martin and of course my first love Tolkein. Can you guess my favorite genre?

Movies: The Scent of a Woman, District 9, Philadelphia, Angels in America, Doubt, (500) Days of Summer, To Wong Fu: Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar, The Birdcage, Kill Bill, Clue, Pan's Labrinth, Dark Crystal, Juno, Wit, Fame, Serenty/Firefly (best TV show ever), Nightmare before Christmas, Love Actually, Big Fish, and Reefer Madness the Movie Musical.

Music: I am a big Broadway fan, but besides the show tunes: The Neilds, Green Day, Jay Brannan, Evanescence, and pretty much anything that has a good beat and a little soul in it. I am also a complete sucker for violins, cellos and most other stringed instruments. A good singer will get me everytime as well.

Food: Chinese, Italian, Greek, Indian, American, Japanese, pretty much anything that I don't have to cook for myself.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends
2. Theater/Acting
3. Love
4. Passion
5. Books
6. Beauty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How excited I am to be almost 30. I know the cliche for many gay men is that life ends at the age of 30, but for me I feel like now that I have finally gotten through the grueling crucible of my 20s I am finally at a place in my life where I can really start to live. I know who I am, I know what I want, and I get to spend the rest of my life pursuing it. Now I just need to find someone to share the journey with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either in a show, out to a show, hanging with friends, or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a bit of a secret gamer, it just takes the right combination of people to pull out my hidden geekdom
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to :). There is no better way to know if we might be right for each other than having a conversation, so pull the rip cord my friend and let's see what happens!