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35 Santa Clara, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm just a laidback guy trying to figure life out, one day at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at a software company as a user researcher/user experience designer. This is just a fancy way of saying I make stuff "user friendly". I really enjoy what I do - if you hate what you do, then you'll hate your life.

Other than work, I'm trying my best to get in better shape and especially travel more. I have a love/hate relationship with running, but luckily I'm loving it more recently.

I'm ALWAYS looking for new and exciting stuff to do. Indoors, outdoors, here, there - i'm down to try anything once.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Keeping a conversation going (awkward silence sucks)
-Finding the funny side of things, with occasionally putting my foot in my mouth as an added side benefit to this.
-Epic naps
-Last minute spontaneous trips
-Finding great places to eat
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Everything. Hip hop, R&B, deep house, soulful house, classical, alternative, rock, blues, jazz, japanese, hawaiian, surf rock, all kinds of electronic music. Just don't play that stupid "Rude" song. That song ruins good days and makes puppies cry.

Food: I'm a sucker for good food and especially good cocktails.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's just assume that everyone can't go without the following:
Good food, good conversations, good music, good times, water, food, friends, etc. etc.

So in addition to that:
-A good sense of humor/wit/sarcasm
-Perspective and life changing moments
-Sports (Warriors, Giants, Sharks, Niners).
-Doing something active (random sports [rock climbing, racquetball, bowling, etc], outdoor activities [hiking, camping, fishing, etc], obstacle races (just started doing this. awesome))

But nothing beats good conversation with great people. Absolutely nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling with friends over drinks/food, hitting the gym if everyone else is busy, or going to bed a boss?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're cool and/or witty. If you know how to laugh, and do it often. Sense of humor is super important to me. Wit. Sarcasm. Randomness. Bottom line is if I can't make you laugh, and/or you can't make me laugh, and/or we can't laugh together (at each other, other things, or other people), then there really isn't going to be any kind of fun. Just awkward silences and a "I wish I was somewhere else" contest where everybody loses.

If you're a good mix of smarts, carefreeness/laidbackness, deepness, laziness, activeness, hungriness, etc.

Or if you just want to meet new people. Ain't nothing wrong with making new friends with people without constantly wondering if/when they're gonna hit on you.

Or if you love dancing. And you want to kick my ass on the dance floor. As in dancing. Please don't actually kick my ass.