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35 Santa Clara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:57pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm just a laidback guy trying to figure life out, one day at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a UX Designer/User Researcher working at a software company in the east bay. This is just a fancy way of saying I make stuff "user friendly". So basically my job is to find out what people like and/or what people hate.

Other than work, I'm trying my best to get in better shape and especially travel more. I have a love/hate relationship with running, but luckily I'm loving it more recently.

I'm always looking for new and exciting stuff to do. Indoors, outdoors, here, there, where ever - i'm down to try anything once. Recent interests: Hiking/backing, running, yoga, cooking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Keeping a conversation going (awkward silence sucks)
-Finding the funny side of things, with occasionally putting my foot in my mouth as an added side benefit to this.
-Epic naps
-Last minute spontaneous trips
-Finding great places to eat
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Everything. Hip hop/R&B (especially old school), deep house, soulful house, classical, alternative, rock, blues, jazz, japanese, hawaiian, surf rock, all kinds of electronic music.

Food: I'm a sucker for good food and especially good cocktails.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's just assume that everyone can't go without the following:
Good food, good conversations, good music, good times, water, food, friends, etc. etc.

So in addition to that:
-A good sense of humor/wit/sarcasm
-Perspective and life changing moments
-Sports (Warriors, Giants, Sharks, Niners).
-Doing something active (random sports [rock climbing, racquetball, bowling, etc], outdoor activities [hiking, camping, fishing, etc], obstacle races (just started doing this. awesome))
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What am I gonna eat next?

oh, and life =)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling with friends over drinks/food
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're cool and/or witty. If you know how to laugh, and do it often. Sense of humor is super important to me. Wit. Sarcasm. Randomness. Bottom line is if I can't make you laugh, and/or you can't make me laugh, and/or we can't laugh together (at each other, other things, or other people), then there really isn't going to be any kind of fun. Just awkward silences and a "I wish I was somewhere else" contest where everybody loses.

Or if you just want to meet new people. Ain't nothing wrong with making new friends with people without constantly wondering if/when they're gonna hit on you.